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Thursday, December 23, 2004 - Benj 

Let the Feasting Begin.....

In the seasonal spirit of bonhomie and good cheer, and as if anyone needed a reminder, I say LET THE FEASTING BEGIN. 

It’s Christmas Eve: time for eggnog, piping hot apple cider, little flaky baked pastries, cheesecake, swatting the youngsters off the long couch and stretching out after eating that final slice of pie that shoulda been skipped.  Forget the presents, skip the family yuletides, BRING ON THE FINE CUISINE. 

I gotta lay out the truth here.  Look, when it gets right down to it, your average male keeps things simple and has just three primary interests during the holidays:  1.  Food  2.  Food 3.  More Food.   Really, truly.  Be honest, gentlemen.  Ladies, accept it for what it is.  Sure - it’s good to see the old relations again, to slap a few backs, dole out a few wedgies to deserving little mischievous cuzzins, kiss a few babies.  All that stuff is dandy.  But secondary.  Pass the garlic mashed potatoes, and quit talking to me, can’t you see I’m busy EATING??? 

At this munificent time of year, let’s all loosen our belts just a little more (hey, get comfy and just slide that belt off all the way and use it to discipline someone else for over-eating), scoot back slightly from that table top, and plunge in with fork and knife as if there’s no tomorrow.  Don’t even look up from your plate – focus on the task at hand.  Who cares about saving any for your little brother or visiting friend; load up your plate and disappear into your own carb-laden world, oblivious to the cries of “hey, he took the last three pieces of cheesecake” or “but you already drank half a gallon of egg nog” and other such distractions.   

Life is short, the holidays roll around for just one month a year, and then it’s off to the gym and low carb diets come frigid January.  So eat up, don’t think about calories, and then enjoy a nice long food coma in front of a roaring, crackling fire.  You deserved it, and you should celebrate in gluttonous style.  Don’t let your momma or your poppa or your honey tell you otherwise.  :) 

Since there are youngsters in the IPF readership, I’ll disclaim at this point and say that this was all written in jest.  Read my update from last Thursday for a reminder of what’s really important this time of year.  Blessings to all.

MERRY CHRISTMAS!      




 

Thursday, December 16, 2004 - Benj 

Fast Forward...

Everything seems to go into fast forward this time of year.  Christmas program practices, prayer vigils, scurrying to get shopping done, crowds at the mall, decorating the house, etc.  And yet, in all that activity, the Central Story of History gets spun out over and over again – in radio songs, plays, Scripture passages:  Christ came to earth, lived a completely faithful life, died for each of us, and now promises us a life of fulfillment and a rich eternity at His side.  

So in the dizziness that swirls around us each holiday season, the simple reminder of Christ’s life compels us to continue to search our hearts and to determine that we will Live For Him Always.  Is there any other cause that’s worth it?  Anything else that one could commit one’s life to that is worthy? 

Romans 12:1 – “And so, dear brothers and sisters, I plead with you to give your bodies to God. Let them be a living and holy sacrifice--the kind he will accept. When you think of what he has done for you, is this too much to ask?”

We are quick to forget God’s blessings, to fade out the memories of what He has done for us.  May this Christmas be a time of remembrance and renewal for each of us.  Blessings.




 

Thursday, November 18, 2004 - Benj 

Don't Worry About Anything.....

Don’t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything.  Tell God what you need, and thank Him for all He has done.”  - Philippians 4:6, New Living. 

This verse just leaped off the page at me, earlier this morning.  I was prompted to wonder about how much we end up worrying about things.  Little things, big things, things that aren’t worth the trouble.  I thought about some trials that I went through lately, and though I did pray somewhat during those trials, I felt convicted about the worrying that I had done. 

What a challenge to all of us:  to not worry about ANYTHING!  And rather, to pray about EVERYTHING!  To simply convey our needs to God, thank Him for his beneficence in our lives, and move on!  God’s got our backs. 

That’s freedom. 




 

Thursday, November 4, 2004 - Benj 

NEW COLUMNIST, BUSH RALLY, BUSH WINS, ETC...

A brand new columnist, Roger, has his debut on IPF today.  A few of us webmasters have known Roger for several years, and are proud that he has joined the team.  Look for his occasional writings on a myriad of topics.  CLICK below.

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Here’s a picture from www.cnn.com, taken at the Bush rally that I attended last Thursday.  It was a great experience all around: Bush gave an impassioned speech, the crowd was lively and engaging in the extreme, and it was my very first time seeing a President in person.  (though I was so far back from the stage, that I couldn’t even manage a decent shot with my own camera).  We had to wait about 45 minutes to get through the metal detectors. 

Standing three people ahead of us in the line was a somewhat strange looking lady wearing a politically loud t-shirt and odd purplish lipstick, carrying some literature and a purse.  Guess what else she was carrying?  Marijuana.  For which she got busted by the security guards.  You woulda thought I was attending a hippie, drug smoking, liberal wacko, Kerry-loving rally  

And people were hawking products like buttons, keychains, bumper stickers… all at not-so-great prices.  Still, I was almost tempted to buy a Tshirt with emblazoned with a pretty catchy statement:  Friends don’t let friends vote DEMOCRAT." 

THREE PERCENTAGE POINTS.  The popular vote was 51% to 48%. In this column, I mused once or twice that the President might win by a three point margin. Lucky guess, eh? But I had my doubts: as late as last Thursday, I was wondering if 3% was too generous. Right up until Tuesday, it really seemed like the election could go either way, though Bush did seem to slightly have the upper hand.

And he pulled it off on Tuesday. FOUR MORE YEARS. I've been following politics for awhile now, and I have never felt so strongly about a presidential election. The terrorists in Iraq and around the world, and even Osama last Friday, all did what they could to throw the election. Not to mention CBS and the forged documents story, the NY Times breaking the "missing ammunitions at Al QaQaa" story just last week, etc, etc.

 

The first president to win a majority of the votes in 16 years.  More popular votes than any candidate in history.  And people question whether or not he has a mandate.  If Kerry had won with this kind of margin, the pundits and lefty politicos would all be screaming MANDATE at the top of their lungs.  Other signs that point toward a mandate:  Senate Minority leader Tom Daschle was defeated for his re-election bid.  There were few people in Congress who had the power and clout to interfere with Bush’s agenda.  And Tom Daschle did all he could to interfere.  Now the people of South Dakota have booted him from power.  A few other Senate seats turned from Dem to Republicans, and now the US Senate is expanded to 55 Republicans instead of 51.  Not bad at all.     

We may have more significant elections in years to come, but it’s hard to imagine.  Decades from now, historians (and the rest of us commoners) will look back on this 2004 election as one of the most critical of our lifetimes.  And there will be no doubt, looking back, that Bush was the right man at the right time.  Here’s another guess for you:  President Bush will go down in history as one of the great presidents of this incredible nation.  Maybe even surpassing Ronald Reagan, may he rest in peace.   

Arrivederci:  I’ll be traveling next week, and will email in an update if possible.  If not, see you in two weeks.




 

Thursday, October 28, 2004 - Benj 

COUNTDOWN, BOSTON, TRIP TO MD

President Bush has a campaign stop in my area today around lunchtime.  A friend was able to pick up a couple tickets, so we’re going! 

Five days to go until Election Day.  This has been the most dragged out presidential race that I can remember.  It just feels like it’s gone on forever.  Here’s hoping for a clean, legally untangled victory on Tuesday.  I didn’t expect this race to stay so close, right down to the wire.  It makes everything more interesting, but also more intense.  I’m still sticking with my prediction of a Bush win.  Though I wonder if he will have much of a margin at all.  1% might be reasonable, 3% could be pushing it.  Hopefully we’ll know by late Tuesday evening.     

The Boston Red Sox did it.  Clean sweep.  The World Series in just four games.  86 years was a long time to wait.  And baseball is till the most boring sport on the planet.  BUT, it was good to see the Red Sox defeat the mighty Yankees, and then take the big prize.  Let’s hope the Boston luck doesn’t extend to their senator in Tuesday’s election.  J 

I was in Maryland this past weekend, visiting relatives and friends.  A definite highlight was the Saturday (and Sunday) visit to Potbelly’s near U of MD www.potbelly.com.  Those were some seriously good sandwiches (the WRECK and the ITALIAN were what I got).  Good prices.  And the bubble tea at the Japanese restaurant next door was pretty good too. 

Fighting the good fight and finishing the course:  While in Maryland, we visited two quite elderly friends who are in the twilight of their lives.  It was encouraging, in both cases, to see the fruits of a long life lived in God’s service.  Both were so calm, peaceful, and even radiant.  What a legacy, and what a reminder that life goes by quickly.  “One life to live, it will soon be past; only what was done for Christ will last.”




 

Thursday, October 21, 2004 - Benj 

Boston Red Sox & The Candidates: Part II

I don’t usually watch pro baseball.  Too slow paced.  But last night’s unbelievable defeat of the NY Yankees by the Boston Red Sox was a game I should have watched.  What a huge, huge upset.  Boston must be going crazy today.  It’s a good thing, though, to hear that a hugely dominant team like the NY Yankees has been defeated.  Kinda like how it felt good to see the Los Angeles Lakers get beaten.  Chris tells me “… this is the first time in 101 years that any team in MLB postseason history has come back to win a series after being down 0-3.”  The biggest upset ever in sports?..........You decide. 

Onto the election:

Kerry married a gazillionaire, not once but TWICE.  He can barely get his wife to hug him or show him any affection.  Bush married a librarian, the daughter of a homebuilder, and seems to have a truly uplifting, exemplary marriage.  

Kerry went to Yale, then Boston College law school.  Bush went to Yale, then Harvard University business school. 

Before politics, Kerry served as a prosecutor.  Bush was involved with several business efforts, culminating in his success as manager/part owner of a pro baseball team, from which he got elected into the Texas Governorship.

Bush served as Texas governor for six years before becoming the President.  Kerry has a record of 20 years as a US Senator, and Massachusetts Lieutenant Governor (under Dukakis) before that.

Kerry served a tough tour of duty in Vietnam.  Those Swift Boat soldiers had some serious bravery, driving those boats up Vietnam rivers – serving as lures and targets to get the Vietnamese to come out of hiding in the jungle and shoot at them.  Bush, on the other hand, appears to have used his connections to land a cushy state-side assignment. 

Bush seems like the kind of guy you could sit down and enjoy a cup of coffee with, Kerry can come off like a boring stiff.

Bush is kind of a fratboy at times.  Kerry comes off as a perpetually serious worrier.

Kerry is a very good debater.  Bush is just good.  (Clinton was the master). 

Bush openly professes his faith in Christ.  Kerry is much more reserved on the subject.

Bush attends a Methodist church.  Kerry is a lifelong Catholic.

Bush is a certifiable pro-lifer.  Kerry claims to be “personally pro-life”, but has consistently voted with the pro-choice platform. 

Bush is an optimist.  Kerry is not quite a pessimist, but he’s not on the optimist end of the spectrum either.

Kerry windsurfs in Nantucket and goes skiing at his rich wife’s Idaho retreat.  Bush clears brush and cedar from his ranch in podunkville Texas.




 

Thursday, October 14, 2004 - Benj 

The Candidates

I must have been tired last night, or else the 3rd presidential debate was kind of a yawner for the first hour or so.  Because somewhere around 9:30, I started dozing off.  I tried to stay awake, but couldn’t.  So I called it a night around 9:50 and missed the last 40 minutes of the debate. 

Reading a couple reviews this morning, some people are saying the debate was a draw (that’s what I thought, too, for the part I watched).  Others are saying that Bush won big and that this should give him a boost that will carry him to an election victory.  Cross your fingers.      

Two big issues in this election, for me, are national security and the War on Terror (they are inter-related of course).  Tax cuts, domestic spending, homosexual issues, etc are all important issues of course.  But the War on Terror over-rides all of that.  We have to not-get-killed by lunatics and reduce that threat before such lesser issues will take the limelight the way they used to.    

John Kerry:  The vice president said it well in his debate with Edwards.  Paraphrase:  “90 minutes of tough talk in a presidential debate can’t obscure a 30 year history of being on the wrong side of defense issues.”  For anyone who’s considering voting for Kerry, it’s vital that you read up on his positions and votes, as a US Senator, for the last twenty years.  There is a record there, and it’s not reconcilable with the tough talk he’s putting out in this campaign. 

I admit, though, that I’ve come to appreciate him more after seeing these debates.  To me, he seems to be a likable, personable kind of guy.  He gives well-constructed answers, most of the time.  And he definitely seems more presidential than Dubya.  But will the USA be better off with a John Kerry presidency? 

George W. Bush:  We’ve had four years to see Dubya leading the country through an incredibly difficult and divisive period in American history.  He has obvious strengths (perseverance, not a poll-driven politician, personal warmth and integrity), but he has weaknesses as well (stubborn-ness, a lack of articulateness).  I think the lack of articulateness has hurt him significantly.  Compare his speaking ability to someone like Tony Blair, who the president was fortunate to have standing with him for the last few years.  Being able to communicate effectively and competently, especially in such times, goes a long way toward reassuring people.  Like Winston Churchill during WW 2.  Ronald Reagan during the end of the Cold War.  And like Tony Blair during this fight against terrorism.      

But a weakness in speaking and answering questions can be misleading.  For many haters of Bush, they talk about his “stupidity” and his “shallowness”.  Both these charges are dismissed by those who know him well and who’ve worked with him.  Even his critics and political opponents have spoken well of his political savvy and ability to lead. 

Bush has clearly undertaken a major, major offensive against the terrorists, world-wide.  The terrorist-backing nation Libya backing down, just five days after Saddam was captured, was a good indication of the wake-up call that the world has received because of Bush’s tough positions.  I’m of the opinion that we are living through some of the most serious times that we will ever live, in terms of the genuine threat to our country.  And so this election is not an “ordinary” election, if there is such a thing.  But it definitely seems weightier than the recent 2000, 1996, and 1992 elections, doesn’t it? 




 

Thursday, October 7, 2004 - Benj 

The Debates

Well, there’s no doubt that Bush lost Debate #1.  A little history: Ronald Reagan lost his first debate against Mondale in 1984 and went on to a massive landslide of a victory (in 84, Mondale managed to carry just one state in the Union, his home state of Minnesota). 

But Dubya is not up against a Walter Mondale.  As Friday night showed, Kerry is quite a good debater.  He came off as tough, competent, and presidential.  The president was tough too, but his occasional pauses and moments of inarticulateness colored his performance in a negative way.  A day or two after the debate, it seemed like Kerry had drawn even in the polls.  But the further we’ve gotten into this week, and the more polls that have been taken, Bush still appears to be in the lead – by 2-7 points.  This election’s not over, but it’s still Bush’s to lose. 

Cheney versus Edwards I am amazed by the variable reports I have read online about who won on Tuesday night.  I agree that Edwards did a good job.  Definitely.  But Cheney obliterated him.  To paraphrase Chris Matthews of MSNBC, it was like Edwards pulled out a water gun on Cheney and Cheney turned back on him with a machine gun.  NO COMPARISON.  If Edwards had been up against the tough Bush of the 2000 debates, Edwards might have won.  He’s good, quite good.  But Cheney beat Edwards, hands down. 

Look for Bush and Cheney to keep hammering the Johns on their “voting for the war, but against the troop funding”, to nail Kerry on his 30 year record as a semi-pacifist.  One of Cheney’s most effective statements on Tuesday night was

And with respect to this particular operation, we've seen a situation in which, first, they voted to commit the troops, to send them to war, John Edwards and John Kerry, then they came back and when the question was whether or not you provide them with the resources they needed -- body armor, spare parts, ammunition -- they voted against it. 

I couldn't figure out why that happened initially. And then I looked and figured out that what was happening was Howard Dean was making major progress in the Democratic primaries, running away with the primaries based on an anti-war record. So they, in effect, decided they would cast an anti-war vote and they voted against the troops."

Now if they couldn't stand up to the pressures that Howard Dean represented, how can we expect them to stand up to al Qaeda?

What a great question that both reveals the politically driven calculations of the Johns, and ties it clearly to the Al Qaeda threat.    

FLUSH THE JOHNS!!!  That’s it folks.  Keep up with this election.  Peace. 




 

Thursday, September 30, 2004 - Benj 

The Big Debate

Game On.  Bush vs. Kerry.  Dumb-as-a-Rock versus The Waffler, according to the extremists.  The first of four live debates coming your way tonite at 9pm EST.  Bush has the upper hand, but Kerry’s known to fight like a wolverine when he’s cornered.  So look out.  These debates should be good.  Bush, according to some pundits, has never lost a debate.  But the same is said about Monsieur Kerry.  So who’s gonna win?  My money’s on Bush carrying the debates and then riding to an election victory with a three point margin.

Cheney vs Edwards.  Just one debate coming up between these two.  Look for Edwards to do well, but for Cheney to smoke his lightweight trial-jury self. 

So that leaves 2008.  Hillary versus someone.  Giuliani?  Florida governor Jeb Bush, the president’s little brother?  Ahnold?  Arnold gave a marvelous speech at the republican convention.  Take that, economic girly men.  But no one, no one in either convention, eclipsed the sheer power and dramatics of Democratic Senator Zell Miller skewering Kerry for the shifty, poll-driven politician that he is.  All the while exalting the president, who sits atop the opposing party.  It was quite simply one of the most powerful speeches ever delivered by a national politician in recent memory.  One for the history books. 

THIS ELECTION MATTERS.  We’ve got just a few more weeks until Decision Day.  So if you are of age, and if you haven’t read through the issues and picked a candidate, then get on up and do it.  This election and 2008 may very well end up going down as two of the most important elections in our lifetime.  This is World War 3 that we’re living through folks, make no mistake, and each vote counts.        




 

Thursday, August 26, 2004 - Benj 

Swift Boaters vs Kerry: Who picked this fight?

This Swift Boat - John Kerry feud is getting hotter by the day.  Certainly it was noble and brave of Kerry to serve in Vietnam.  The mainstream media seems to have sided with Kerry in this feud, for now.  Perhaps that's justifiable since there are multiple versions being thrown out of what really happened during his war-time service.  Kerry should be given the benefit of the doubt, but the Swift Boaters should not automatically be disregarded.  They served bravely too, and their story deserves to be heard.  Free speech, right?  

This whole thing is picking up steam, and Kerry's been forced to fight back.  The Swift Boaters book is set to debut at the #1 spot on the NY Times Book Sales List.  People are paying attention.  This election's getting ugly right before our eyes.

Below is a good take on all of this from today's Boston Globe.      


IT WAS John Kerry, not the Swift Boat Veterans for Truth, who picked this fight.

He was the one who made his long-ago stint in Vietnam the centerpiece of his campaign for president. He's the one whose running mate urges voters to take Kerry's measure by spending "three minutes with the men who served with him 30 years ago." He's the one whose campaign ads dwell on his combat heroics. He's the one who has repeatedly played the Vietnam card against critics and opponents. And he's the one who challenged anyone "who wants to have a debate about our service in Vietnam to bring it on."

So the Swifties brought it on. Their scorching attack on his wartime record is so effective precisely because they, like Kerry, were there. They too went to Vietnam when so many other young men didn't. They too fought and bled for their country. If his wartime experience lends him a certain moral authority, it does no less for them.

That doesn't mean their version of the facts is closer to the truth than his. There are conflicting eyewitness recollections, and, as The Washington Post says, "both accounts contain significant flaws and factual errors." Kerry certainly wouldn't be the first soldier to have embellished his war stories; the Swift Boat vets wouldn't be the first whose passions have altered their memories.

Of course, if Kerry really wants to silence the debate about his medals, he can authorize the government to release all his military records.

But that won't silence the Swifties. Because their real beef with him is not about what he did in Vietnam. It's about what he did when he came home.

On April 22, 1971, Kerry went before the Senate Foreign Relations Committee to indict the American war effort in Vietnam for horrendous war crimes. These were "not isolated incidents," he testified, "but crimes committed on a day-to-day basis with the full awareness of officers at all levels of command."

He offered no evidence. Instead he trumpeted the charges of the "Winter Soldier Investigation," an antiwar gathering a few months earlier at which men claiming to be Vietnam veterans -- many were later exposed as frauds -- described the atrocities they had allegedly committed.

"They told stories," Kerry said, "that at times they had personally raped, cut off ears, cut off heads, taped wires from portable telephones to human genitals and turned up the power, cut off limbs, blown up bodies, randomly shot at civilians, razed villages in a fashion reminiscent of Genghis Khan, shot cattle and dogs for fun, poisoned food stocks, and generally ravaged the countryside of South Vietnam, in addition to the normal ravage of war, and the normal and very particular ravaging which is done by the applied bombing power of this country."

That is what thousands of Vietnam veterans, not to mention countless other vets, have never forgiven or forgotten. Bob Dole, whose right arm was crippled in World War II, suggested on Sunday that Kerry apologize to the 2.5 million veterans he defamed. His words -- which drew immense media coverage at the time -- helped poison public attitudes about Vietnam veterans and the cause they had fought in. Even worse, they gave encouragement to the enemy.

"The Viet Cong didn't think they had to win the war on the battlefield," says Paul Galanti, who appears in the second -- and far more devastating -- Swift Boat Veterans ad, "because thanks to these protesters they were going to win it on the streets of San Francisco and Washington."

Galanti has good reason to remember Kerry's testimony. He first learned of it in the notorious "Hanoi Hilton," where he spent nearly seven years as a POW.

Kerry has never taken back his terrible slur against his fellow soldiers -- men he now calls his "band of brothers." The most he has been willing to say is that his words "were a little bit over the top" and that he could perhaps "have phrased things more artfully." He certainly doesn't regret the propaganda coup he handed the Viet Cong: "I'm proud that I stood up," Kerry told NBC in April. "I don't want anybody to think twice about it."

And therein lies the fundamental hypocrisy of the Kerry candidacy.

He came to prominence as a radical opponent of the war in Vietnam, yet now he runs for president on the strength of his service in that war. He portrayed the men who fought there as unspeakable savages, yet now he surrounds himself with Vietnam vets at every turn. He lent respectability to those who demanded that America cut and run, that it abandon a beleaguered ally, that it drop "the mystical war against communism." Yet now he insists that he would be a tough and vigilant commander-in-chief, one who would never disrespect allies, one in whose hands the security of the United States would be safe.

Even after 33 years, Kerry's 1971 testimony, and his refusal to either repudiate or corroborate it, remains unsettling -- and relevant. For the Swift Boat vets, this fight may be personal. But all of us have a stake in its outcome.




 

Thursday, August 19, 2004 - Benj 

New Life in La Familia

So I'm heading to New Jersey this weekend.

To see my very first niece, Anna Susan.  And the first-born for my sister Rebecca and her husband Simu.  The premier grandchild for both sides of the baby's family.  Born in the wee hours on August 15th, India's Independence day.  Here's a pic of her, taken on her birthday.  

 

And as if one newborn in the family wasn't enough, this morning we got a 7am phone call saying that my first cousin Shibu and his wife Nisha had safely delivered their first-born, a son named Nathan Shibu (earlier this morning).  God is GOOD!  I can already imagine those two babies, a couple years from now, tearing up the joint wherever they are.  Double Trouble!

The miracle of child birth.  I hardly know where to start.  Maybe I won't be so tongue-tied once I have my own bambino.  :-)

Two things remain difficult for me to believe:

1.  That I am actually an uncle.  I better get some respect now, right?  

2.  That my sister Rebecca is actually a mom (you'd have to have seen her in action all these years to fully understand this, doling out wedgies left and right to the youngstaz, good-humoredly lecturing everyone else on how to raise their kids, and in general raising the roof wherever she goes... )

A friend once told me that he wanted to become an obstetrician because "what other job can you go to every day and actually see miracles?".  Interesting point.  Is there any experience more joyous than a baby being born?  Anything more exciting?  

I've had a growing sense of excitement over the last nine months, as Rebecca got closer and closer to her due date.  I felt a need to call her almost every day to make sure she was doing fine and that all was well.  And now that the baby's arrived ( I can confirm having heard her cry over the phone, and having seen her live via a webcam), I find myself scarcely able to wait any longer before catching my first real live look... likely to occur after midnight on Friday night.   

It somehow feels acutely real when your own friends or relatives have a baby.  Up until these last couple years, most babies that I knew of were born to aunts & uncles, couples at church who were older than me, relatives of friends, etc.  But now, babies are being born to other couples who are actually friends of mine... people my age, people at my station in life.  

And so life goes.  People getting married, having babies, settling down.  Buying a house, minivan, car seats, diapers.... what's going on!!!  Will I EVER get my long-desired Ford Mustang?  Or will I spend that money remodeling a house to make it more kid-proof?  What about that phat stereo system Sonia promised me when I bought her the ROCK?  Will that stereo just be another fading dream, supplanted by the financial realities of raising some little tykes?  Jest kidding of course... ;-)

And how come it costs $20,000 more on average to raise a girl than a boy !!!




 

Thursday, August 12, 2004 - Benj 

Cheeseburgers

What a topic to write about, eh?  (yes, I was in numerous Canada ctiies recently (Toronto, Ottawa, Waterloo, Windsor) and I only heard the word "eh" used once, as opposed to hearing it a gazillion times the last time I was there, probably 10 years ago.  Slowly but surely, is Canada getting absorbed into the American mainstream? Even one of their national icons, Tim Horton's doughnut & coffeeshops, was bought out by Wendy's, an Ohio-based company).  

But I can't help writing about one of my favorite foods this chilly August morning (48 degrees where I live).  It's summer time, grill-time, CHEESEBURGER-time.  Is there anything more savory than one that's hot-off-the-grill, nestled into a warm roll, toppped with whatever pleases your palate... ?

Where to get one If you're passing through my neighborhood, stop by, and I'll cook you one.  I've already written about the best chain of restaurants to get a cheeseburger at:  Red Robin.  Hands Down.  If you haven't had their Bleu Ribbon cheeseburger yet, then you just haven't lived!  :-)  Here's their website:   BLEU RIBBON BURGER:  A juicy burger basted with a tangy steak sauce & topped with crumbled Bleu cheese. Served with onion straws, lettuce, tomatoes & zesty chipotle mayo on an onion bun.

Other restaurant chains, for great burgers anyway, would include Max & Erma's, TGIFriday's, and even Chili's.  And for a "good" fast-food burger, I'd give the top vote to Burger King's Whopper.  Harold & Kumar notwithstanding, White Castle cooks up what must be the blandest burger available in the fast food market (and the tiniest... who wants to eat a tiny cheeseburger!?!?)

Choose Your Cheese: What kind of cheese to top off that slab of cooked beef?  Choices, choices.....      PepperJack is high on my list, obviously so is Bleu, and definitely the old standard sharp cheddar.  If you can find some applewood smoked cheddar, mmmmmmmmmm.... now that's a treat.  

Photograph of Applewood Smoked Cheddar

Wild Game: A long time back, I had a moose burger up in the wilds of Montana.  It was decent, just decent.  A bit dry, and definitely not as tasty as

100% ground beef.

Do it RightAll you need is some quality meat (i.e. NOT ground turkey), non-processed cheese, and a few fresh garnishings of your choice (tomatoes, lettuce, peanut chutney, guacamole, sour cream, ranch salad dressing, you name it).  And don't get some budget hamburger bun, either, from your local cost-savings grocer.  Get some real bread or a roll.  

Death By Cheeseburger:  Wanna read more?  CLICK.




 

Friday, August 6, 2004 - Benj

The Lord Reigns 

I've recently been listening to Michael W. Smith's "Worship" CD.  In one of the tracks, someone reads the following passage from Psalm 97

1 The LORD reigns, let the earth be glad;
let the distant shores rejoice.

2 Clouds and thick darkness surround him;
righteousness and justice are the foundation of his throne.
3 Fire goes before him
and consumes his foes on every side.
4 His lightning lights up the world;
the earth sees and trembles.
5 The mountains melt like wax before the LORD ,
before the Lord of all the earth.
6 The heavens proclaim his righteousness,
and all the peoples see his glory.

What great language about God's glory and power... mountains melting like wax, the earth trembling, the people seeing His glory.  His glory that is all around us, each and every day.  We all have days where we are tempted to be a little down or discouraged... on days like that, it's good to be reminded of God's greatness, His glory, and of all that He's done for us. 




 

Thursday, July 22, 2004 - Benj

Leftists & ABCD's 

I find myself amazed at the ongoing stupidity of some of the leftists out there.  People who just don't GET this War on Terrorism.  People like Michael Moore who reflexively attack Bush as a liar without any substantive reason.  People who make a mockery of Tony Blair, even though he is a true liberal who happens to support Bush in this War.  People who say Bush attacked Iraq to steal their oil!  He did it cuz his daddy was a failure! (this was actually said in the last week by former Democrat GA Senator Max Cleland)  Or that Bush attacked Iraq so Halliburton and Dick Cheney could get rich!  

ABSOLUTELY ABSURD!!!  It almost seems that some people forget the horrid moments on 9.11 when the world changed.  In the post 9-11 world, a rich and crazed madman like Saddam could not be allowed to remain in power.  (Is it even worth mentioning that Saddam had an UNDISPUTED history of murderous atrocity against his own people and his neighbors?  Are these leftist wackos even listening to anything besides the deluded voices in their own heads?)

Time for a Rumble:    

What's with the recent veiled attack, here at IPF, toward ABCD's?  (American Born Confused Desi)  Desi is another word for "Indians", for those who don't know.  l am an ABCD and proud of it, and so are a lot of the readers of this website, if I had to guess.  

What specifically on this website has conveyed the following? ".. I have been regularly reading the various articles on IndaPhatFarm, and I have enjoyed most of them.  However at times, I get this feeling that it is really difficult for Indian American kids (ABCD’s) to accept the fact that they are Indians.  No offense to anyone ..."  -Lakshmi Aunty's excellent first column from Monday, July 19th.  

WELL COUNT ME AMONG THE OFFENDED.  :-)  Just Kidding of course... Lakshmi and I are personal friends, so I know she will take the rest of this with a grain of salt.  

Or what about this statement: " I would like each one of us Indians to be really proud of having an Indian background".  Again I ask, what at this website would have led someone to believe that any of us Indians/ABCDs/ whatever are NOT proud of our Indian background?

Or what about this: "One of my goals is to show you all the real India outside of Kerala. "  (Kerala is a state in southern India, and happens to be the state in India that many of us have roots in).  Does this mean that we all need to learn a lot about Indian life outside of the Kerala experience?  Or is this a putdown of Kerala?  

Maybe Lakshmi will answer some of the above questions in a future column.  The below commentary on ABCDs is only me blathering on about the gap betwen ABCDs versus Indian Nationals.  And a connection should not be made with what Lakshmi wrote a few days ago.  

Two Key Questions:

1. Do ABCD's feel they are "better" or more "with it" than  Indian Nationals (or FOBs, a potentially derogatory term which some ABCD's use in an affectionate way, but others in a rather harsh, demeaning manner)?  To be addressed in a future update.  (FOB = Fresh Off the Boat).  

2. Do Indian Nationals feel they have license to look down their noses at us ABCD's, perhaps because we don't embrace the Motherland and the Motherland's culture to the degree that Indian Nationals do?  As an ABCD, I certainly don't expect Indian Nationals to have the same appreciation for America as I do (I grew up here after all, they didn't).  But I sometimes get the impression that there is a disconnect on both sides of this divide, with ABCDs and Indian Nationals clinging to broad, stereotypical views of each other.    

If I did NOT grow up in India, I can still have appreciation for India and the Indian culture.  Can't I?  If I, as an ABCD, feel conflicted about something like arranged marriage, does that mean I don't have a proper appreciation for Indian culture?  Is my view somehow less valid because it differs from the Indian norm?   

Or suppose I feel that fish curry is just a plain nasty dish to eat, does that then imply that I don't have good taste in Indian food?  Just because most Indian natives love it?  What if I feel that your average Indian meal takes way to long to prepare, and so just skip it, and grill a cheeseburger instead?  Does that mean I am a sell-out?

Like any culture, the Indian culture has both its good and its bad points.  Ditto for American culture, Mexican culture, Arab culture and so on.  Those of us who've grown up in a bi-cultural context may not be able to appreciate the native culture of our parents to the same degree as our parents themselves.  But that should not be expected or demanded.  Nor should an ABCD expect his or her parent to appreciate America to the same degree or in the same way that an ABCD would.  It SHOULD go both ways, but it often doesn't.

Having said all this, I personally am open to learning all I can about India.  Seriously.  I especially like hearing relatives & friends talk about current Indian events and Indian politics (NO SURPRISE THERE RIGHT!).  

And any discourse on Indian food, the absolute finest cuisine in the world, would be welcome!  Yes, it takes too long to cook for simple cheeseburger-loving chefs like me, but that doesn't mean I won't chow down like a starved Swami when it's put in front of me.  :-)

Long live the Motherland!




 

Thursday, July 15, 2004 - Benj

3 Big Questions, Tony Blair quote 

I've been thinking about three questions I heard at the July 4th Christian Retreat that I attended.  These were shared in the very last meeting (Sunday morning), and were an excellent, thought-provoking climax to the Retreat:

1.  Who Am I?  In other words, what should be my true identity?  The answer is:  a child of God.

2. Who am I to serve?  We ALL end up giving our lives for some cause.  Everyone chooses ultimately to serve something or someone.  Not choosing is a choice in itself.  As a child of God, my prime goal in life should be: to serve God in all I do.  It comes down to choosing between True Wisdom (God's) and False Wisdom (our own human wisdom).  James 3:13-17, New Living:  

13If you are wise and understand God's ways, live a life of steady goodness so that only good deeds will pour forth. And if you don't brag about the good you do, then you will be truly wise! 14But if you are bitterly jealous and there is selfish ambition in your hearts, don't brag about being wise. That is the worst kind of lie. 15For jealousy and selfishness are not God's kind of wisdom. Such things are earthly, unspiritual, and motivated by the Devil. 16For wherever there is jealousy and selfish ambition, there you will find disorder and every kind of evil.
17But the wisdom that comes from heaven is first of all pure. It is also peace loving, gentle at all times, and willing to yield to others. It is full of mercy and good deeds. It shows no partiality and is always sincere.

3.  What will I accomplish?  Every day requires a renewed commitment to accomplish God's Will and not my own.  Every single day.  It is in our nature to slide back ever so quickly into serving ourselves, doing our own will, and thereby ultimately accomplishing nothing of value for the Kingdom.    

Keep the faith.  

Major shifting of gears here.... 

Regarding the Iraq War, the WMD fiasco, who lied or not, and a perspective on Saddam, here is Tony Blair from a speech yesterday

"No one lied. No one made up the intelligence. No one inserted things into the dossier against the advice of the intelligence services. Everyone genuinely tried to do their best in good faith for the country in circumstances of acute difficulty. That issue of good faith should now be at an end ... But I have to accept, as the months have passed, it seems increasingly clear that at the time of invasion, Saddam did not have stockpiles of chemical or biological weapons ready to deploy ... I have searched my conscience, not in the spirit of obstinacy, but in genuine reconsideration in the light of what we now know, in answer to that question. And my answer would be that the evidence of Saddam's WMD was indeed less certain, less well-founded than was stated at the time. But I cannot go from there to the opposite extreme. On any basis he retained complete strategic intent on WMD and significant capability. The only reason he ever let the inspectors back into Iraq was that he had 180,000 US and British troops on his doorstep ... Had we backed down in respect of Saddam, we would never have taken the stand we needed to take on WMD, never have got progress on Libya ... and we would have left Saddam in charge of Iraq, with every malign intent and capability still in place and every dictator with the same intent everywhere immeasurably emboldened. For any mistakes made, as the report finds, in good faith, I of course take full responsibility. But I cannot honestly say I believe getting rid of Saddam was a mistake at all." - Tony Blair




 

Thursday, July 8, 2004 - Benj

Way to go, John Kerry 

The VP pick of John Edwards, while predictable, was still an excellent excellent move on John Kerry's part.  He could not have selected a better team-mate.  Time alone will tell if Kerry can win the whole shebang, but Edwards will definitely give him a strong boost in a few ways:

Charisma Deficit:  John Kerry has about as much charisma as a flowerpot.  But John Edwards exudes it.  Ronald Reagan had that mysterious "it" factor, Bill Clinton has it, and Edwards has got it too.  It's not something that can be acquired, or John Kerry would have sold his soul to get it - decades ago.  But Edwards has it down to the bone, and it's going to help.  

Southern Strategy:  The Democrats are weaker than a sick baby in the South.  Weak, I tell you.  Edwards, born in SC and raised in NC, gives the Democrats a fighting chance down yonder.  And not just in the Presidential Race, but in congressional and senatorial races at national and state levels.  

VP Contrast:  Just visualize, for a moment, the October VP debate to be held in Cleveland (which was, by the way, the very first city to get electricity).  Speaking of electricity, think about Cheney: bland, gray, almost boring, but very capable.  Now think about Edwards: just as slick and charming as El Maestro himself - Bill Clinton, youthful looking, upbeat, and also very capable.    

I don't buy the argument, though, that Edwards is gonna smoke Cheney just because Edwards was Mr. Super Trial Lawyer in his pre-political career.  Cheney cleaned Lieberman's clock in 2000, and he did it without breaking a sweat.  This VP debate will be much better than the inevitably boring Bush-Kerry slugfest.  

Optimism Sells:  Edwards is reportedly a sunny kind of person all the time.  I.E. the great Ronald Reagan.  Even if he doesn't have much political experience, such cheerfulness will help carry him (and the ticket) a long, long way.  Add such optimism to his charisma, southern roots, and his speaking ability and you have a bona-fide political force.  This is going to be a tough ticket to beat, but I think Bush & Cheney can pull it off.  It's gonna be close.  




 

Thursday, July 1, 2004 - Benj

Summer Retreat, What will you do without freedom?

This weekend, we head to the metropolis of New Freedom, Pennsylvania for the annual summer retreat that I've been going to for the last 10 years.  ( New Freedom is just a short drive north of Baltimore ).  I hope to see some of you readers there.  There are few things that I look forward to like these retreats that I attend periodically.  They are just the right blend of Christian fellowship, chilling with old friends and family, playing sports, and late-night runs to the local fast food joints.

John 12-21 is the focus this year for the meetings, and there is a LOT to meditate on in these chapters.  I am especially blessed by the entire 17th chapter, which focuses on the passionate prayer of Jesus for Himself, his disciples, and for all believers.  Verse 3 reads "Now this is eternal life: that they may know you, the only true God, and Jesus Christ..."  How incredible that each one of us can get to know God, personally and intimately!  That the great Lord of the Universe would be interested in us peons!  And through such knowledge of God, we are assured of living eternally.  How humbling, and how amazing.  

At Christian gatherings like this upcoming retreat, I am always reminded of the incredible freedom that we have here in the USA.  Freedom to worship as we see fit, pursue whatever careers we want, freedom to go hither and yon without fear, etc.  

Which brings me to my July Fourth Reflections:  

Monday marked the official turnover of power in Iraq.  Whether or not you agreed with going to war in Iraq, there are three things that stand out:  1.  Several hundred of our troops sacrificed their lives in the cause of liberation.  2.  The Iraqis have a much better future now than they did under Monster Saddam.  3.  Al-Zarqawi and his fellow terrorist thugs demonstrate more clearly than ever what we are up against (i.e. the brutal, senseless slayings of Nick Berg and Paul Johnson).  

An entire country has been liberated.  Through the actions of the USA, Britain, and several other nations.  So this is a great time to be reminded of the magnificent blessings that we have in America, primarily because of the liberty that has been here for over two centuries:  liberty in the marketplace, liberty in religious life, liberty for families to live according to the best undersanding that they have.      

As William Wallace asked, "What will you do without freedom?"




 

Thursday, June 24, 2004 - Benj

Mish Mash           

Here's a smattering of thoughts on a few (unrelated) topics:.

God's Masterpiece:  Let me start with a Scripture that's been an encouragement to me lately:  "For we are God's masterpiece.  He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so that we can do the good things He planned for us long ago."  Ephesians 2:10, New Living.  

Reagan and Church:  Last Thursday, I commented on Reagan not attending church.  A couple days later, I read this quote:  "Many Americans have heard that he rarely attended church while president, and this is true.  Because he respected his fellow worshippers at church, he didn't want to interrupt services with a motorcade and swarm of Secret Service officers.  He also didn't want to put others at risk should another assassin attack.  Instead, my father prayed and meditated wherever he was.  He especially liked to worship at his beloved Rancho del Cielo, his "open cathedral", he called it, saying it reminded him of the line from Scripture: "I will lift up my eyes to the hills - from whence comes my help?  My help comes from the Lord."  -Michael Reagan, son of Ronald Reagan, in the June 21st issue of US News & World Report 

The Detroit Pistons did it.  It felt like a sweep of Los Angeles, though it took five games to do it.  Completely unexpected.  LA should have taken this like taking candy from a baby.  I was glad to see Detroit win, but I wanted to see a higher level of basketball being played.  Game 5 wasn't even worth watching in the second half, and supposedly the owner of the lakers walked out of that game before quarter three was over.  THE OWNER OF THE TEAM walked out.  What's that tell you?

A good place to eat a fine burger is RED ROBIN.  www.redrobin.com can help you find a location near you.  A brand new one just opened up locally, and their gourmet burgers are superb, served with unlimited steak fries (that's right UNLIMITED) or a pretty good salad.  The atmosphere is nice too: spacious, airy, with comfortable booth-style seating.  Try the Blue Ribbon burger or the Santa Fe burger for a great introduction.  Is there anything better than an awesome gourmet cheeseburger???  

Recent Reading:  Christian author John Piper has been on my list lately.  I recently was in a Bible study that focused on an interesting article he wrote called "Brokenhearted Joy".  And then there's the two books by him that I'm reading:  Desiring God and The Passion of Jesus Christ.  Both are quite good so far.  Check out Piper's website:  www.desiringgod.org.   

And President Bill Clinton's book is now available at a bookstore near you.  I doubt I'll buy it, but I will probably end up reading at least parts of it someday when I'm browsing at Barnes & Noble.  I don't think any president in memory holds a candle to Clinton in terms of magnetism, charisma, and pure intrigue.      




 

Thursday, June 17, 2004 - Benj

Ronald Reagan           

So much has been written and spoken about our former President in the last several days, including an article about Reagan's "remarkable humility" from the Boston Globe that I've posted below.  I don't presume to think that I could add much to the accolades.  But I'll try.

I find the timing of Reagan's death to be astounding.  God's timing.  Jim Jordan, a former manager in Kerry's campaign, admitted that he and other Democratic operatives have been deathly scared of Reagan passing away during the last three presidential election cycles.  Because of the potential impact it could have on the voters.  And now Reagan has passed away right in the middle of a campaign that is unlike any we have seen before:  the first campaign being waged after the nationally-defining horror of 9-11.

One thing that troubles me about Reagan:  he was not a church goer.  It is clear that he believed deeply in God and the Bible, but seeking fellowship and Christian brotherhood doesn't seem to have been a major focus of his life.  I know that there are many, many Christians out there who are in a similar situation - but the Word is clear on this:  we ARE to regularly meet together with others in the faith, i.e. "not forsaking the assembling of yourselves together, as the manner of some is."  - Hebrews 10:25.  Last Wednesday night, however, we heard a speech that he gave in 1983 to a group of Christian broadcasters, and there is simply no denying the rock-solid faith that he had in God, the Bible, and the power of the Christian community for good.  

I've read a couple books in the past about Reagan, and overall I am left with the impression that he was a tremendously decent, uplifting, romantic, and caring type of man.  Definitely a role model in so many ways.  May his memory be forever blessed.

  

The modest giant

RONALD REAGAN was the first president I was old enough to vote for and the only one I have ever voted for with enthusiasm. He was the preeminent influence on my political coming of age -- so much so that to this day, "Reaganite" is the label that best sums up my political worldview.

For those of us who so admired Reagan during his presidency -- and who remember the mockery and disdain to which he was so often subjected -- the tributes that have been pouring forth since Saturday help make the sorrow of his death and the awful sickness that preceded it more bearable. History, as he always knew it would, has vindicated him. The man once dismissed as an "amiable dunce" and reviled as a warmonger is now acknowledged as a courageous visionary, an apostle of decency and liberty who left the world far better than he found it.

"The American sound," Reagan said in his second inaugural address, "is hopeful, big-hearted, idealistic, daring, decent, and fair." Much the same could be said of Reagan himself. All week long, the accolades have emphasized the character and values that made him the man he was -- his optimism, his patriotism, his self-deprecating humor, his moral clarity, his rocklike belief that freedom is the birthright of every human being, his willingness to call evil by its name, his faith in God, his sheer guts.

But one trait has gone largely unmentioned: His remarkable humility.

In her moving and affectionate account of the 40th president's life, "When Character Was King," Peggy Noonan says that when she really wants to convey what Reagan was like, she tells the "bathroom story."

It occurred in 1981, shortly after the assassination attempt. Reagan was still in the hospital and one night, feeling unwell, he got out of bed to go to the bathroom. "He slapped water on his face, and water slopped out of the sink," Noonan relates. "He got some paper towels and got down on the floor to clean it up. An aide came in and said: `Mr. President, what are you doing? We have people for that.' And Reagan said, oh, no, he was just cleaning up his mess, he didn't want a nurse to have to do it."

That was Reagan: On his say-so armies would march and fighter jets scramble, but he hated to trouble a hospital orderly to mop up his spill. That humbleness, it seems to me, is a mark of Reagan's greatness, too -- and a key to understanding the outpouring of affection his death has unleashed.

Though he came from nothing -- poor family, alcoholic father, no status, nothing to boast about -- Reagan considered himself no less entitled to respect and a chance to prove himself than those who had much more. But if no man was his better, neither was he the better of any man. That instinctive sense of the equality of all Americans never left him -- not even when he stood at the pinnacle of fame and power.

In reminiscences this week, former staffers have described what it was like to work for the president. Several have recalled how, even when they were at the bottom of the pecking order, he never made them feel small or unworthy of notice. To the contrary: He noticed them, talked to them, made them feel special.

Reagan climbed as high as anyone in our age can climb. But it wasn't ego or a craving for honor and status that drove him, and he never lost his empathy for ordinary Americans -- or his connection with them, as we now know from his private correspondence.

He was a lifelong letter writer -- perhaps the most prolific correspondent of any president since Jefferson. A collection of his letters was published last year ("Reagan: A Life in Letters"), and it is striking to see how many of them were written -- by hand, usually -- to angry or disappointed critics, many of them unimportant people he had never met. He is unfailingly polite and respectful; often he is touchingly earnest in his attempt to get them to see his side of an issue.

And why would the president of the United States devote so much time to answering mail from complete nobodies? In part because he never forgot his own modest roots. He was a genuinely humble man, one who didn't scorn others as "complete nobodies." For who knew better than he just how far a "nobody" from nowhere might someday go?

On June 3, 1984, Reagan visited Ballyporeen, the County Tipperary hamlet where his great-grandfather was born in 1828.

"Today I come back to you as a descendant of people who are buried here in paupers' graves," he said. "Perhaps this is God's way of reminding us that we must always treat every individual, no matter what his or her station in life, with dignity and respect. And who knows? Someday that person's child or grandchild might grow up to become the prime minister of Ireland -- or president of the United States."

In his first inaugural address, Reagan described George Washington as both "a monumental man" and "a man of humility." The two qualities merged in the nation's first president. They merged again in the 40th. May he rest in peace. 




 

Thursday, June 10, 2004 - Benj

Give me some Ribs, J-Lo, Indian Weddings           

Well I was going to write about the great and honorable Ronald Reagan for today's update.  But we've been seeing his image all week in print, on TV, hearing audio clips on the radio, etc etc.  Inundation.  So I'll save my eulogy for another time.  Maybe next week.  

Monday night we fired up the new grill and cooked some indian-spiced ribs.  Sonia made the marinade and I didn't watch so I can't tell you how to make some yourself.  Cooked to perfection.  Mmm.... I think I'll stop writing and go eat.  :-)

This new grill is the first thing I've ever assembled that actually worked when assembly was complete.  Normally my klutz-of-a-self has to tamper with the "finished product" to get it to work right, i.e. unscrewing this, reopening that, slamming something against the wall, and yelling about the glories of the pre-civilized world when people didn't have to deal with such blasted gadgets.

So it was a nice feeling to slowly turn on that valve on the newly filled gas tank.  Wait 15 seconds, and then turn on the ignition, hear the click-click-click for a few seconds and then WHOOSH the fiery gas comes piping up.  I couldn't believe it.

Next topic:  can you believe that J-Lo got hitched again?  Of course you can!  She's the next Elizabeth Taylor.  50 years from now she'll need all 10 fingers and all 10 toes to count her innumerable marriages.  How pathetic.  Let's hope she fades, fades, fades, fades away.  

Speaking of marriages, it's that time of the year again.  How many weddings have you been to yet this season?  Hopefully NONE.  If there's one thing I do NOT like, it's Indian weddings.  Here's a horrible generalization for you:  Most Indian weddings are too crowded, too long, too pretentious, and there's not enough time to chat with the people that you actually wanna chill with.  So far we are only scheduled to attend one wedding this year, and it'll be one of the few weddings I've attended that's cross-cultural:  a malayalee from DC marrying a Toronto Caucasian.  

Which brings me to the extremely interesting topic of interracial marriages.  But my time is up.  Tune in next week.  Ronald Reagan or Interracial Marriages.  I'll toss a coin.  




 

Thursday, June 3, 2004 - Benj

Graduation & College           

I was in MD this past weekend for the graduation party of my little cuzzin Becky (aka SHABOOQUA).  Being there brought back memories of my own high school graduation many moons ago.  

First of all, I want to publicly go on record and say that for most people, it's no big deal  to graduate high school.  As I told Becky, "GIRL YOU BETTER GRADUATE FROM HIGH SCHOOL OR I WILL THROTTLE YOU".  :-)

Secondly, I will now contradict myself and say that it is an achievement to finish high school and to finish it well like Becky did.  God wants us to do our work wholeheartedly and cheerfully - whether it be high school, college, working at Potbelly's, computer programming, seeing patients, ministering in the Church - whatever it may be.

Looking back, I'd say that my college years were some of the best.  New friends, all kinds of social activity, interesting philosophy classes, reading different sorts of books than I'd ever read before, being involved with on-campus Christian ministry, studying for tests and writing papers, playing a lot of racquetball, developing an interest in politics, etc.

All right, enough reminiscing.  But if there's any advice I could give to Becky and other college-bound people, it would be this:  LIVE IT UP!  ENJOY YOURSELF!   WALK WITH GOD!  MAKE THE MOST OF THE NEXT FOUR YEARS!  




 

Thursday, May 20, 2004 - Benj

Gangsta Station Wagon, Ibrahim & the Great Satan         

2005 Dodge Magnum 

The all new Dodge Magnum Whachoo think?  Personally, I like it.  I have yet to see one driving on the road, but the pictures look good.  Now this doesn't mean that I'd go buy one or anything.  But it looks pretty distinct and pretty hip for a station wagon!    

IraqtheModel is where the below comes from.  The story shines a light on the tangible benefits that the Coalition has bought to Iraq, along with revealing some of the angst about the "occupation".  Which has been better for Iraq, SADDAM or the USA?   

"My young cousin is a religious Sunni who goes to the mosque and listens to the cleric there every Friday and believes whatever he says, as he’s still young. My uncle always teased his son about this but never prohibited him from doing that. We were talking about different stuff; the kids’ needs, clerics, Americans and the increase in the average income of most Iraqis.  

My uncle had some unusual sense of humor that didn’t fit quite well in his somewhat religious family. He winked at me and turned to his son and asked him "What do you think of the Americans?" His son answered, "They are occupiers".  "So you think we should fight them?" his father asked.  Ibrahim said "No, but I don’t like them". 

My uncle said, pretending to change the subject
"Do you like your new computer that no one shares with you?" "Yes of course dad". "Ok, are you satisfied with the satellite dish receiver we have or do you need a better one?"  "This one is fine but I heard there’s a better one that gets more channels"
"ok I’ll get you that next week". Then he said, "Is there anything else you’d like to have son?"  "No dad I have all that I need".

"Ok but how about a car?"  Ibrahim was astounded and said "Really? a..a CAR.. for me!?".  "Of course for you! I'm too old to drive now and my eyes are not that well and you are the older son. So whom else would it be for!?"  "Oh, dad that will be great! When will that happen?"  "Just finish you’re exams and you’ll have it".
"I will dad".

"Are you happy now son?"  "Yes dad, sure I am!"  "Then why do you hate the Americans you son of a b***h!? I couldn’t get you a bicycle a year ago, I could hardly feed you and your brothers and sisters. You didn't know what an apple or a banana tasted like, I couldn’t buy you a damned Pepsi bottle except in occasions, and now you can have all that you wish, and a car of your own! Who do you think made that possible!?"  My cousin's face turned red and didn’t answer as we laughed and I said "What do you think Ibrahim?"

He said, "Well it’s true but it’s our money. They are not giving us a charity" and I said "Of course it’s our money, so let’s forget the Billions of dollars they are giving to rebuild Iraq and the efforts they are making to cut down our debts and lets talk about our money. Why didn’t your father, I, my brothers and all the Iraqis have anything worth mentioning before the Americans came?" He said, "Because Saddam used it to buy weapons and build palaces". 

"There you have it Ibrahim, but Americans are not touching our money. Can you tell me who’s better; the ‘occupiers’ who are helping us or the ‘patriot’ who did all that you know to us?" He said in a faint voice "They are better than Saddam but still they are not Muslims". "So do you want them to be Muslims?" "I wish they were." "Will you fight them to that?" he said, "No, of course not. I don’t like fighting." We didn’t want to pressure and embarrass him further and didn’t go further, as he’s still young but he’s smart and good-natured and will get it soon."




 

Thursday, May 13, 2004 - Benj

IPF-mobile, Bush's Humanity, 24       

Above is my entry for the IPF-mobile.  Even better than an H2.  Can you imagine Chris & Binu riding around town in this beast?  :-)

Here's a very relevant quote from Oklahoma Senator James Inhofe: "I'm probably not the only one up at this table that is more outraged by the outrage than we are by the treatment. These prisoners, you know they're not there for traffic violations. If they're in cellblock 1-A or 1-B, these prisoners, they're murderers, they're terrorists, they're insurgents. Many of them probably have American blood on their hands and here we're so concerned about the treatment of those individuals."  

If Senator Inhofe's remarks are in fact correct, then we may need a serious shift in our collective outrage regarding the so-called "abuse".  These terrorists and insurgents are all connected to each other, directly or indirectly.  Extracting information from one lunatic, by whatever means necessary, may somehow prevent the killing of more innocents in the future.     

The fury over the Iraqi prisoner abuse continues, but it has been overshadowed by the absolutely horrific slaying of Nick Berg, an innocent US civilian.  This should clearly demonstrate the difference between ATROCITY and ABUSE.  Berg's slaying was an atrocity; the Iraqi detainees suffered abuse.  Hopefully idiots like Ted Kennedy will now shut their mouths, and more sane people in the party will have increased influence (i.e. Joe Lieberman who gave a great statement at last week's Rumsfeld grilling).  

Next subject:  Here's a great photo that reveals the very human side of Bush, which he seems to have no trouble demonstrating.  What a genuine contrast to the aloof, lordly John Kerry.  If this election were only focused on the likability factor, Bush would swat Kerry outta the ballpark.    

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During his visit to the Golden Lamb Inn in Lebanon (near Cincinnati, Ohio), President Bush stops to hug Ashley Faulkner, who lost her mom in the Sept. 11 attacks.

And to close out today's update, a shameless plug and an old picture from the best TV show ever.  And shame on you if you are not watching it!  Just a couple more episodes left in the ongoing third season.   www.fox.com/24

 




 

Thursday, May 6, 2004 - Benj

Disproportionate Rage       

People across the Muslim world are infuriated by the abuses of Iraqi detainees at the hands of American soldiers.  And so they should be.  Those abuses were absolutely criminal and the perpetrators should be dealt with severely.

But where was the outrage when four American civilians were killed and dragged through the streets like animals?  Why is is that Americans get worked up when their soldiers misbehave terribly against the Iraqis, but the Muslim world barely raises its voice when Americans are tortured, beaten, killed, and abused?  Where was the outrage when Mullah al-Sadr refused to turn himself in, despite proof of guilt?  Why was there so little uproar about the Iraqis who danced in the street and sprayed bullet-fire in celebration of the heinous murder of those four Americans?

It's true that there was some concern expressed, some condolences offerred.  But nothing close to the level of outrage that has swept the world because of the alleged abuses that are coming to light.  

It starts and ends with Hatred.  Although most Muslims are far different from the fanatics that have hijacked the religion, there is an underlying current in the Muslim religion that infuses so many with a hatred for America & Israel and anything non-Islam.  Even some peace-loving Muslims have an unreasonably strong bias against Israel, and can barely utter any semblance of outrage at the terrorist tactics of the Palestinians.  

This evil pathology needs to be cut out like the grotesque, destructive cancer that it is.  And that's what this War on Terror is all about in the end:  bringing change to a hate-filled, morally deprived region of the world.  

In closing, a quote from war historian Victor Davis Hanson:  "... there is an asymmetry about the coverage of the incident, an imbalance and double standard that have been predictable throughout this entire brutal war.

The Arab world -- where the mass-murdering Osama bin Laden is often canonized -- is shocked by a pyramid of nude bodies and faux-electric prods, but has so far expressed less collective outrage in its media when the charred corpses of four Americans were poked and dismembered by cheering crowds in Fallujah. The taped murder of Daniel Pearl or a video of the hooded Italian who had his brains blown out -- this is the daily fare that emanates now from the television studios of the Middle East.

Indeed, if Al-Arabiya and Al-Jazeera could display the same umbrage over mass murder that they do over these recent accounts of shame and humiliation of the detained Iraqis, much of the gratuitous violence of the Middle East would surely diminish. The papers that now allege war crimes are the same state-controlled and censored media that print gleeful accounts of death and desecration of Westerners and promulgate an institutionalized anti-Semitism not seen since the Third Reich."




 

Thursday, April 29, 2004 - Benj

Iraq & Politics       

Surprisingly, all the negative news out of Iraq of late has helped President Bush.  The latest polls show him slowly widening a lead over Kerry, and they also show that the American people trust Bush more in leading the war on Terror.

The Democrats, not so subtly, have been assuming that a worsening of conditions in Iraq would help Kerry.  The last month has proven that assumption false, and has left Kerry in a weakened state.

Where do things go from here?  John Kerry has a tough road to walk, and the smart money is still on Bush winning by a slim margin.  Conservative optimists, of course, are predicting a Bush landslide.  

Could it be that if things improve in Iraq, that Kerry gets helped?  Something along the lines of:  Iraq stabilizes, Bush is duly granted his victory, the nation begins focusing on other things (health care, jobs, etc).  And accordingly Bush is no longer viewed just in light of the war on terror?  

If this election ends up being about the Terror War & Iraq, Bush wins big.  If it begins to shift to other domestic issues, then it'll be a fight to the finish.  With the smart money still on Bush.




 

Thursday, April 22, 2004 - Benj

Taking Control of a Quality Life - Chuck Swindoll       

ü      Make and cultivate a few very close friends

ü      Stay in touch with people

ü      Read widely

ü      Exercise regularly and strenuously

ü      Turn the TV off

ü      Commune with God

ü      Fight the rut of routine

ü      Leave time for leisure

ü      Have more fun

ü      Take up a hobby or pastime that gets you outdoors

ü      Don’t let your occupation enslave you

ü      Eat less

ü      Laugh more

ü      Quit fussing

ü      Pray everywhere and at all times

ü      Encourage at least one person everyday

ü      Stop living for money

ü      Invest in people (and eternal commodity)

ü      Plant a garden

ü      Trust God for something that seems impossible

ü      Loosen up your intensity

ü      Stop taking yourself so seriously

ü      Start today

                                                     Chuck Swindoll




 

Thursday, April 15, 2004 - Benj

The Pop of Benj, Round 4        

The Rise of TrumpThe Donald has managed to raise his TV show, "The Apprentice" pretty high into the ratings stratosphere.  I saw it for a few minutes during the very first episode, and found the cheese factor to be very heavy.  So I didn't turn it on again until last week, and was surprised by the big improvement.  And tonight's finale is two hours long, about two hours longer than my tolerance for such reality TV.  Maybe I'll catch the last 10 min.  Regarding the two finalists:  Kwame seems like a likable guy, but I think Bill has more of Trump's edge and drive.  I could care less who wins, though, so no predictions.  

Stand Up Loser As much as I admire some of Bush's traits, one thing that I cannot stomach is his inability to handle Q&A.  This was evidenced yet again in his Tuesday night prime-time press conference.  His speech before the Q&A was good, and some of his answers to some of the questions were good.  It's just not his thing I guess.  Clinton, Cheney, and especially Rumsfeld all leave Bush in the dust when it comes to thinking on their feet and communicating concisely and articulately.  

Earl Scruggs, Banjo Master:  By hook or by crook, I will one day learn to play the banjo.  Yeah right.  And Mr. Scruggs is the widely acknowledged master of the instrument.  It's not an easy instrument to master, from what I've heard.  He's still going strong, despite recently passing the 80 year mark.  Here's a recent CNN  profile.




 

Thursday, April 8, 2004 - Benj

Condi Rice, Taxes, Chipotle's   

Condi Rice, President Bush's National Security Advisor, is testifying at this very moment before the 9-11 Commission.  You can listen live at www.npr.org or catch it on the major TV networks.  I think it's good that she and the Administration gave into the public demand, and that she is now telling her side of things.  

Turbotax:  I used this program for the first time ever to do our taxes.   It went pretty smoothly the whole way (until the very end).  But I really don't know if I saved any time doing it.  And at the end, I had to do a major download from Turbotax's website to obtain the needed fonts which allowed me to print all the paperwork.  How stupid!  You would think that everything you would need would be on the CD-ROM itself, without additional downloads needed.  Especially for something as basic as PRINTING documents. 

I recently heard about the whole Fair Tax concept, which would entirely eliminate the income tax system and be replaced by a national retails sales tax.  No more 1040's, no more April 15th deadlines, etc.  The more you buy, the more you pay taxes.  The less you buy, the less you pay.  And ZERO tax on earned income.  How's that sound?   For more info, check out www.fairtax.org.  

A brand new Chipotle's has opened up less than 10 minutes from the homestead.  Have you eaten at a Chipotle's yet?  If not, you are missing out!  For real, this is some of the best gourmet Mexican food ever.  Check it out.  Here's a promo from   www.chipotle.com:  "It started like this . . . a classically trained chef decides to put his unique culinary take on burritos and tacos. He's focused. Obsessed with using only the finest, freshest ingredients. Runs the kitchen of his little burrito joint like that at the five-star restaurant where he honed his skills. Prepares everything fresh each day. Spends hours getting everything perfect, so your order is ready in seconds. After all, just because food is served quickly is no reason you can't have a great meal. 

It's that kind of attention-to-detail that sets Chipotle apart. We only serve a few things, so we can concentrate on doing them very well. And we use only the best ingredients. But they're simple. And that idea, taking something simple and elevating it to something special is what Chipotle is all about. It's all summed up in our name. A chipotle pepper is just a simple jalapeño pepper that's been smoked and dried elevating it from ordinary to something extraordinary. Tasting is believing.
"




 

Thursday, April 1, 2004 - Benj

Breather   

I'm heading to a Christian Men's Retreat this weekend; it'll be great to have a breather from the recent rush of life.  There is something so relaxing about being at a retreat setting: surrounded by trees and God's great creation, sleeping in cabins, heading to the lodge for coffee and fellowship, encouraging teaching, uplifting Praise & Worship, etc.  

Speaking of Christian Men, I recently heard and was blessed by this Twila Paris song: 

Come and join the reapers,

All the Kingdom seekers

Laying down your life to,

Find it in the end.

 

Come and share the harvest;

Help to light the darkness

For the Lord is calling faithful men.    

 

That's all for today folks.  See you next week.   




 

Thursday, March 25, 2004 - Benj

Busy, busy...   

You know how there can be stretches in life where things seem really busy?  Maybe the stretch lasts for a week, maybe for months.  I feel like I am in the middle of such a busy period right now.  Going 100 mph in all directions, so to speak.  

But it's all good.  Idle hands are the devil's workshop, as the old saying goes.  The main thing is to stay on the Christian journey in the midst of everything we do.  To not lose focus on what is eternal, and on what really mattersRegardless of what else is going on.    

Colossians 3:2-3, New Living - "Let heaven fill your thoughts.  Do not think only about things down here on earth .... your real life is hidden with Christ in God."  




 

Friday, March 19, 2004 - Benj

Is this World War III?  

We've arrived at the one-year anniversary of Operation Iraqi Freedom.  Below is an article by Secretary of Defense Donald Rumsfeld, from today's NY TIMES.

If you have a little extra time, here's a link to an article from Wednesday's Baltimore Sun about the ramifications of the 3-11 Madrid terrorist attacks.  

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March 19, 2004
OP-ED CONTRIBUTOR,  NEW YORK TIMES      

The Price of Freedom in Iraq

By DONALD H. RUMSFELD

WASHINGTON

This week, as we mark the one-year anniversary of the beginning of Operation Iraqi Freedom, it is useful to recount why we have fought. Not long ago I visited South Korea, just as the Korean government was debating whether to send troops to Iraq. In Seoul, I was interviewed by a Korean journalist who was almost certainly too young to have firsthand recollection of the Korean War. She asked me, "Why should Koreans send their young people halfway around the globe to be killed or wounded in Iraq?"

As it happened, I had that day visited a Korean War memorial, which bears the names of every American soldier killed in the war. On it was the name of a close friend of mine from high school, a wrestling teammate, who was killed on the last day of the war. I said to the reporter: "It's a fair question. And it would have been fair for an American to ask, 50 years ago, `Why should young Americans go halfway around the world to be killed or wounded in Korea?' "

We were speaking on an upper floor of a large hotel in Seoul. I asked the woman to look out the window — at the lights, the cars, the energy of the vibrant economy of South Korea. I told her about a satellite photo of the Korean peninsula, taken at night, that I keep on a table in my Pentagon office. North of the demilitarized zone there is nothing but darkness — except a pinprick of light around Pyongyang — while the entire country of South Korea is ablaze in light, the light of freedom.

Korean freedom was won at a terrible cost — tens of thousands of lives, including more than 33,000 Americans killed in action. Was it worth it? You bet. Just as it was worth it in Germany and France and Italy and in the Pacific in World War II. And just as it is worth it in Afghanistan and Iraq today.

Today, in a world of terrorism, weapons of mass destruction and states that sponsor the former and pursue the latter, defending freedom means we must confront dangers before it is too late. In Iraq, for 12 years, through 17 United Nations Security Council resolutions, the world gave Saddam Hussein every opportunity to avoid war. He was being held to a simple standard: live up to your agreement at the end of the 1991 Persian Gulf war; disarm and prove you have done so. Instead of disarming — as Kazakhstan, South Africa and Ukraine did, and as Libya is doing today — Saddam Hussein chose deception and defiance.

Repeatedly, he rejected those resolutions and he systematically deceived United Nations inspectors about his weapons and his intent. The world knew his record: he used chemical weapons against Iran and his own citizens; he invaded Iran and Kuwait; he launched ballistic missiles at Iran, Israel, Saudi Arabia and Bahrain; and his troops repeatedly fired on American and British aircraft patrolling the no-flight zones.

Recognizing the threat, in September 2002 President Bush went to the United Nations, which gave Iraq still another "final opportunity" to disarm and to prove it had done so. The next month the president went to Congress, which voted to support the use of force if Iraq did not.

And, when Saddam Hussein passed up that final opportunity, he was given a last chance to avoid war: 48 hours to leave the country. Only then, after every peaceful option had been exhausted, did the president and our coalition partners order the liberation of Iraq.

Americans do not come easily to war, but neither do Americans take freedom lightly. But when freedom and self-government have taken root in Iraq, and that country becomes a force for good in the Middle East, the rightness of those efforts will be just as clear as it is today in Korea, Germany, Japan and Italy.

As the continuing terrorist violence in Iraq reminds us, the road to self-governance will be challenging. But the progress is impressive. Last week the Iraqi Governing Council unanimously signed an interim Constitution. It guarantees freedom of religion and expression; the right to assemble and to organize political parties; the right to vote; and the right to a fair, speedy and open trial. It prohibits discrimination based on gender, nationality and religion, as well as arbitrary arrest and detention. A year ago today, none of those protections could have been even imagined by the Iraqi people.

Today, as we think about the tens of thousands of United States soldiers in Iraq — and in Afghanistan and elsewhere around the world fighting the global war on terrorism — we should say to all of them: "You join a long line of generations of Americans who have fought freedom's fight. Thank you."

Donald H. Rumsfeld is the secretary of defense.




 

Thursday, March 11, 2004 - Benj

And Can It Be 

Here are two great verses and the chorus from "And Can It Be", by Charles Wesley.  This classic was recently sung at church, and blessed me.  There is something weighty and moving about these older hymns, especially those written by such heroes of the faith like Charles Wesley.

Easter is approaching, the Passion movie has just been released to much controversy, and it's as good a time as any to consider this question:  How much do I value what Christ accomplished for me through His life, His death and resurrection?  

And can it be that I should gain

An interest in the Savior's blood?

Died He for me, who caused his pain?

For me, who Him to death pursued?

 

Chorus: Amazing love! How can it be

             That Thou, my God, shouldst die for me?

 

Long my imprisoned Spirit lay

Fast bound in sin and nature's night;

Thine eye diffused a quickening ray,

I woke, the dungeon flamed with light;

My chains fell off, my heart was free;

I rose, went forth and followed Thee.

 




 

Thursday, March 4, 2004 - Benj

Bush Vs. Kerry 

It's official.  Bush even surprised Kerry on Tuesday night by phoning him to congratulate him on all his primary wins, and to wish him well in the upcoming campaign.  

Everyone SAYS that this is going to be a hard-fought campaign which will likely end up in a fairly close election.  With Bush prevailing.      

But with eight months left to go until the election, who knows what will happen?  Who can even try to predict what will happen?    

After all, the last several months have seen the steep decline of Kerry, the steep incline of Howard Dean, then the simultaneous implosion of Dean and the Kerry explosion.  And John Edwards made it much further than anyone expected him to.  Just a few months ago, people anticipated a Bush vs. Dean presidential race.  Which would have been one of the more interesting presidential campaigns in recent memory.  But it wasn't meant to be.  (And Bush would have blown Dean away, no doubt about it).  

Bush has a very, very solid team behind him.  He will be formidable.  But Kerry is no lightweight, even though the "massachusetts liberal" label will be hard to shake.  Bush's common-man appeal really helped him in 2000, and will help him again.  Contrast that with Kerry's aristocratic, somewhat snobbish bearing which won't play well with much of the electorate.  

But the Democrats are worked up, mad, and organized.  Their loss in 2000, coupled with the sound beating they took in 2002, and then exacerbated by Howard Dean's inflaming rhetoric has produced a very very strong desire to beat Bush.  At whatever cost.   

This should be good.  




 

Thursday, February 19, 2004 - Benj

Above All 

This song, by Lenny LeBlanc and Paul Baloche, has been ministering to me lately.  So I thought I'd share it with you readers.  Hopefully most of you know the tune and have been blessed by it yourself.  If you haven't heard it before, I'd recommend getting it on CD - it's a powerful song.    

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Above all powers above all kings

Above all nature and all created things

Above all wisdom and all the ways of man

You were here before the world began.

 

Above all kingdoms above all thrones

Above all wonders the world has ever known

Above all wealth and treasures of the earth

There's no way to measure what you're worth.

 

Chorus:  Crucified, laid behind a stone

You lived to die, rejected and alone

Like a rose trampled on the ground

You took the fall, and thought of me

Above all.  

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Thursday, February 12, 2004 - Benj

Fat Atkins?

Well, was he fat or not?  Should people stop counting carbohydrates?  Tuesday's revelation from the Wall Street Journal was that Dr. Robert Atkins weighed over 250 pounds at the time of his death.  (250 pounds for a six-footer is pretty hefty).  Could it be any coincidence that a pro-vegetarian group pushed for the illegal release and subsequent publication of this private medical information?

Was the weight gain really just from his medical conditions as his physicians claim, or was the good doctor pigging out on carbohydrates and ballooning like a whale?  Check out the article below from CNN.  I remember seeing him on Larry King Live just a couple months before his demise, and he didn't look fat.  Less than 200, if I had to guess.    

Lose the poundage:  Millions and millions of people around the world have subscribed to the low-carb dieting that Atkins pioneered.  Especially in America and England, lands of the free, fat, and brave.  He wasn't the first medical professional to ever write about the successes of this type of eating, but he certainly did more than anyone else in the last fifty years to popularize the low carb lifestyle.  Don't worry about your fat intake!  Eat meat, cheese, & butter!  And get thin at the same time!  And watch your cholesterol and blood pressure levels DROP !  Sounds pretty unbelievable but there are loads of devotees out there for whom it has worked.    

Look, ANYTHING beats a low-fat regimen.  Low-fat diets leave you perpetually hungry.  As if yogurts for breakfast and side salads for lunch are sustainable.  YOU MIGHT AS WELL STARVE YOURSELF.  But low-carb, on the other hand, pretty much allows you to NOT feel hungry most of the time.  And if you mix your fat & protein (meat, cheese) with some veggies and fruit, it's really not too bad.

Plug for carbs:  McDonald's breakfast biscuits are a pleasure to eat (and loaded with carbs, sad to say).  Try one with sausage, egg, and cheese sometime and then go hit the treadmill for 30.    

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NEW YORK (AP) -- Dr. Robert Atkins, whose popular diet stresses protein-rich meat and cheese over carbohydrates, weighed 258 pounds at his death and had a history of heart disease, a newspaper reported Tuesday.

Atkins died last April at age 72 after being injured in a fall on an icy street.

Before his death, he had suffered a heart attack, congestive heart failure and hypertension, The Wall Street Journal reported, citing a report by the city medical examiner.

At 258 pounds, the 6-foot-tall Atkins would have qualified as obese, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention's body-mass index calculator.

Diet is one potential factor in heart disease, but infections also can contribute to it.

Stuart Trager, chairman of the Atkins Physicians Council in New York, told the Journal that Atkins' heart disease stemmed from cardiomyopathy, a condition thought to result from a viral infection.

Trager said the weight was added between his accident and his death, and in fact Atkins weighed less than 200 pounds at the time he was injured.

"During his coma, as he deteriorated and his major organs failed, fluid retention and bloating dramatically distorted his body and left him at 258 pounds at the time of his death, a documented weight gain of over 60 pounds," the doctor said in a written statement. "How and why the Journal reported that he was obese, remains the only unanswered question in this pathetic situation."

Atkins widow outraged

The medical examiner's report was given to the Journal by the Physicians Committee for Responsible Medicine, a group that advocates vegetarianism. The medical examiner's office told the Journal that the report had been sent to the group in error.

Ellen Borakove, spokeswoman for the New York City office of the chief medical examiner, said the records would not be released to anyone else, but they clearly indicate that Atkins died from the head injury.

The diet guru's widow, Veronica Atkins, was outraged that the report had been made public and called those who gave the medical examiner's report to the newspaper "extremists."

"I have been assured by my husband's physicians that my husband's health problems late in life were completely unrelated to his diet or any diet," she told the Journal.

Last month, Veronica Atkins demanded an apology from Mayor Michael Bloomberg after Bloomberg called her late husband "fat."

In April 2002, Atkins issued a statement saying he was recovering from cardiac arrest related to a heart infection he had suffered from "for a few years." He said it was "in no way related to diet.




 

Thursday, February 5, 2004 - Benj

Politics Watch

President Bush's approval ratings have dropped, for the first time ever, to just below the 50% mark.  The pundits are blaming a "disastrous" state of the Union speech, consistent and withering attacks from the Democratic presidential candidates, the lack of Weapons of Mass Destruction in Iraq, etc.  

Personally, I thought the speech was fine - perhaps not his best, but certainly not "disastrous".  And the political season is heating up; Bush is bound to suffer at least somewhat at the hands of his rivals' attacking him non-stop, 24/7.  Just wait and see what happens when the Democrats finally pick their candidate, and Team Bush unleashes their mad dogs on the poor fool.     

Guess who dominated on Tuesday, winning five out of seven state primaries across the country?  Senator John Kerry continues to be on a roll.  Time magazine has a decent set of articles on Kerry this week, and also a good article about his multi-millionaire wife Teresa Heinz, of ketchup fame.  

General Clark won in Oklahoma, and John Edwards won by a large margin in South Carolina.  Joe Lieberman didn't win anywhere, and made the decision to quit the race.  Probably the right thing for him to do.  It's amazing that he didn't do better, having run in the VP slot in 2000 and being a centrist candidate and all that.  Oh well.  But I was glad to see Edwards post such a big win in SC.  He is a formidable candidate and this means that the fight for the nomination will go on.  (Edwards was set to drop out of the race if he lost South Carolina.)  

Howard Dean pretty much bypassed Tuesday's primaries to focus on the upcoming primaries in Michigan and Wisconsin, where he believes he has a chance of regaining some momentum.  We'll see.  




 

Thursday, January 29, 2004 - Benj

The Pop of Benj, Round #3

First,  a warm welcome to the new columnists for the "Inspirations" section of this website.  Your weekly contributions should be a great addition to this ever-growing behemoth.      

Round #3.  The notorious Bennifer has finally, thankfully come to a halt.  What say you?  As if this was a surprise of any sort.  For my part, I would be glad to see both Jen & Ben depart from the celebrity universe.  Each of them has become increasingly boring and increasingly plastic.  

Oscar Season is upon us, and Lord of the Rings is dominant with eleven nominations.  It has also earned more money than any other 2003 film with $877 million earned by this past weekend, putting it ahead of Finding Nemo.  You heard it here:  If LOTR doesn't garner the trophy for Best Picture, then it's gonna be a genuine and unforgivable crime.  

The Pope:  Did he or did he not endorse Mel Gibson's upcoming film about the last few days of the life of Jesus?   Hmm..... Mel Gibson's rep released a statement saying that they had received permission to publicize the Pope's reaction to the film:  "It is as it was."  Does that sound like an endorsement to you?  And yet the Vatican is now claiming that the Pope never endorsed the film.   Someone's lying. 

Good book to read:  The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe by C.S. Lewis.  First of a series of seven books that have strong Christian insinuations.  And soon to be turned into a full-fledged movie.  The boom has been unleashed with the gigantic success of the Lord of the Rings movies.  




 

Thursday, January 22, 2004 - Benj

A Different Meatloaf    

First, a few quick political comments.  John Kerry (first place) and John Edwards (second place) scored in a huge way on Monday night in Iowa.  What this means for the Democratic race:  This is clearly no longer a sure-fire thing for Howard Dean, Vermont Governor.  It probably means that Bush & Cheney  will have a very tough fight on their hands if either Kerry or Edwards wins the Democratic nomination (especially if Kerry & Edwards team up for Pres & Vice-Pres).  And keep your eye on General Wesley Clark.  Clark has learned to become a politician at warp speed, and he has a lot of good people working for him.      

Now, onto more important matters, namely FOODUse this recipe sometime if you're in the mood for meatloaf.  It's good with ground turkey or ground beef, take your pick.  You can "indianize" it by adding some  red pepper and cumin.

What I like about this recipe is that it falls within my "lazy cook" guidelines:  it tastes good and it can be prepared and placed in the oven in less than 20-30 minutes.  Then it bakes for an hour and VOILA you'll have a fine entree to ingest.  It won't be as good as your momma's time-consuming Indian curries, but then you won't spend a full day slaving in the kitchen either.  So rustle up the ingredients, chop and mix for a few minutes, stick it in the oven for an hour, and move on.   Serves four.   www.yumyum.com  

Ingredients:

1 1/4 lb

Ground turkey or ground beef

1

Egg, beaten

3/4 c

Cheddar, cut in small cubes

 

 

1 small

Onion, chopped

1/2 med

Green pepper, chopped

1

Stalk celery, sliced thin

 

Lots black pepper, freshly ground

 

Garlic powder to taste

 

Dash paprika

 

Seasoned salt

1/2 c

Milk

1/3 c

Breadcrumbs, Italian-style

3

Slices bacon

Instructions:
Combine
meat through seasonings.
Add milk and breadcrumbs.
If necessary, add a little additional milk until it just barely keeps together in your hands when you try to pick it up.
In small open roasting pan, form into oval.
Lay strips of bacon on top.
Bake at 450 for approximately 1 hour, or until bacon is crisp.
Remove to paper towels to drain before placing on serving platter.





 

Thursday, January 15, 2004 - Benj

Politics Watch    

Howard Dean reads the Bible how often?  When asked which book in the New Testament  was his favorite, he replied "Job".  Priceless.  

Hillary slams Gandhi !  She put her foot in her mouth big-time.  And this time it's no less than a pathetic joke about the Mahatma himselfHere's a write-up on the incident from a conservative online magazine.  Naturally there has been no major report on it in one of the "mainstream" online papers.  This is just more positive proof of the leftward slant of America's news institutions.  

As the article points out, Trent Lott would have been in huge trouble for such a stupid joke.  But then he's a dumb Republican southern senator who has no place in public life, right?  The double standards are stupefying.  No wonder so many people listen to conservative radio, watch Fox News, and find other news sources outside the "mainstream".

Iowa Caucuses:   Just four days away.  Coming up quick.  Dean is in the lead in Iowa, though John Kerry and Dick Gephardt are nipping at his heels.  And John Edwards is experiencing some forward momentum in Iowa too.  Then the New Hampshire primary is a week later, in which General Wes Clark may do very well.  This game is still wide open for an unexpected winner to emerge.

Are you ready for a roaring political season?  For a lot of reasons, this will be one of the more significant presidential elections in our lifetime.  Bush barely won in 2000.  The War on Terror.  An "anti-Iraq war" candidate, Howard Dean, is currently poised to win the Democratic nomination.  And Dean is a street-brawler who often speaks before he thinks, but is still able to seriously arouse the liberal base of the Democratic Party.  It's gonna be interesting.      




 

Friday, January 9, 2004 - Benj

'04    

Scriptures for 2004:  Ephesians 4:1-3, New International Version - "As a prisoner of the Lord, then, I urge you to live a life worthy of the calling you have received.  Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.  Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace."

What does it mean to live in a worthy way?  Worthy of the calling that each of us has received?  Here's what I learned recently from these verses:  To walk worthy means to be humble and gentle.  It means being patient and bearing with others.  It means making concerted efforts to maintain unity.  

Although we cover a number of subjects on this website, we know that the main thing is to walk with God.  I trust that each one of you, in the early days of this year, has taken time to evaluate your relationship with Him.  And that you have committed to serve Him in a worthy way during '04.  Peace.  




 

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5. April 2010
6. March 2010
7. February 2010
8. January 2010
9. December 2009
10. November 2009
11. October 2009
12. September 2009