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Thursday,
December 23,
2004 - Benj
Let the Feasting Begin.....
In the seasonal spirit of bonhomie and good cheer, and as if
anyone needed a reminder, I say LET THE FEASTING BEGIN.
It’s Christmas Eve: time for eggnog,
piping hot apple cider, little flaky baked pastries, cheesecake, swatting the
youngsters off the long couch and stretching out after eating that final slice
of pie that shoulda been skipped. Forget the presents, skip the family
yuletides,
BRING ON THE FINE
CUISINE.
I gotta lay out the truth here. Look,
when it gets right down to it,
your average male
keeps things simple and
has just three
primary interests during the holidays: 1.
Food 2. Food 3. More Food. Really, truly. Be honest, gentlemen. Ladies,
accept it for what it is. Sure - it’s good to see the old relations again, to
slap a few backs, dole out a few wedgies to deserving little mischievous cuzzins,
kiss a few babies. All that stuff is dandy. But secondary. Pass the garlic
mashed potatoes, and quit talking to me, can’t you see I’m busy EATING???
At this munificent time of year, let’s
all loosen our belts just a little more (hey, get comfy and just slide that belt
off all the way and use it to discipline someone else for over-eating), scoot
back slightly from that table top, and
plunge in with fork
and knife as if there’s no tomorrow. Don’t
even look up from your plate – focus on the task at hand. Who cares
about saving any for your little brother or visiting friend; load up your plate
and disappear into your own carb-laden world, oblivious to the cries of “hey, he
took the last three pieces of cheesecake” or “but you already drank half a
gallon of egg nog” and other such distractions.
Life is short, the holidays roll around
for just one month a year, and then it’s off to the gym and low carb diets come
frigid January. So eat up, don’t think about calories, and then enjoy
a nice long food
coma in front of a roaring, crackling fire.
You deserved it, and you should celebrate in gluttonous style. Don’t let your
momma or your poppa or your honey tell you otherwise.
:)
Since there are
youngsters in the
IPF readership, I’ll disclaim at this point
and say that this was all written in jest. Read my update from last Thursday
for a reminder of what’s really important this time of year. Blessings to all.
MERRY CHRISTMAS!
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Thursday,
December 16,
2004 - Benj
Fast Forward...
Everything seems
to go into fast forward this time of year. Christmas program practices,
prayer vigils, scurrying to get shopping done, crowds at the mall, decorating
the house, etc. And yet, in all that activity, the Central Story of History
gets spun out over and over again – in radio songs, plays, Scripture passages:
Christ came to earth, lived
a completely faithful life, died for each of us, and now promises us a life of
fulfillment and a rich eternity at His side.
So in the
dizziness that swirls around us each holiday season, the simple reminder of
Christ’s life compels us to continue to search our hearts and to determine that
we will Live For Him Always. Is there any other cause that’s worth it?
Anything else that one could commit one’s life to that is worthy?
Romans 12:1 –
“And so, dear brothers and sisters, I plead with you to give your bodies to God.
Let them be a living and holy sacrifice--the kind he will accept. When you think
of what he has done for you, is this too much to ask?”
We are quick to
forget God’s blessings, to fade out the memories of what He has done for us.
May this Christmas be a time of
remembrance and renewal
for each of us. Blessings.
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Thursday,
November 18,
2004 - Benj
Don't Worry About
Anything.....
“Don’t
worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God
what you need, and thank Him for all He has done.” -
Philippians 4:6, New Living.
This verse just
leaped off the page at me, earlier this morning. I was prompted to wonder about
how much
we end up worrying about things. Little things, big things, things that aren’t
worth the trouble. I thought about some trials that I went through lately, and
though I did pray somewhat during those trials, I felt convicted about the
worrying that I had done.
What a
challenge to all of us:
to not worry about ANYTHING! And rather, to pray about EVERYTHING! To simply
convey our needs to God, thank Him for his beneficence in our lives, and move
on! God’s got our backs.
That’s
freedom.
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Thursday,
November 4,
2004 - Benj
NEW COLUMNIST,
BUSH RALLY, BUSH WINS, ETC...
A
brand new
columnist,
Roger,
has his debut on IPF today. A few of us webmasters have known
Roger
for several years, and are proud that he has joined the team.
Look for his occasional writings on a myriad of topics. CLICK
below.

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Here’s a
picture from
www.cnn.com, taken at the Bush rally that I attended
last Thursday. It was a great experience all around: Bush gave an impassioned
speech, the crowd was lively and engaging in the extreme, and it was
my very first time seeing a President
in person. (though I was so far back from the stage, that I couldn’t even
manage a decent shot with my own camera). We had to wait about 45 minutes to
get through the metal detectors.
Standing
three people ahead of us in the line was a somewhat strange looking lady wearing
a politically loud t-shirt and odd purplish lipstick, carrying some literature
and a purse. Guess what else she was carrying? Marijuana. For which
she got busted by the security guards. You woulda thought I was
attending a hippie, drug smoking, liberal
wacko, Kerry-loving rally.
And
people were hawking products like buttons, keychains, bumper stickers… all at
not-so-great prices. Still, I was almost tempted to buy a Tshirt with
emblazoned with a pretty catchy statement: “Friends
don’t let friends vote DEMOCRAT."
THREE PERCENTAGE POINTS.
The popular vote was 51% to 48%. In this column, I mused once or twice that the
President might win by a three point margin. Lucky guess, eh? But I had my
doubts: as late as last Thursday,
I was wondering if 3% was too generous. Right up until Tuesday, it really seemed
like the election could go either way, though Bush did seem to slightly have the
upper hand.
And he pulled it off on Tuesday.
FOUR MORE YEARS. I've been following politics for awhile now, and I have never
felt so strongly about a presidential election. The terrorists in Iraq and
around the world, and even Osama last Friday, all did what they could to throw
the election. Not to mention CBS and the forged documents story, the NY Times
breaking the "missing ammunitions at Al QaQaa" story just last week, etc, etc.
The first
president to win a majority of the votes in 16 years.
More popular votes than any candidate in history.
And people question whether or not he has a mandate. If Kerry had won with this
kind of margin, the pundits and lefty politicos would all be screaming MANDATE
at the top of their lungs. Other signs that point toward a mandate: Senate
Minority leader Tom Daschle was defeated for his re-election bid. There were
few people in Congress who had the power and clout to interfere with Bush’s
agenda. And Tom Daschle did all he could to interfere. Now the people of South
Dakota have booted him from power. A few other Senate seats turned from Dem to
Republicans, and now the US Senate is expanded to 55 Republicans instead of 51.
Not bad at all.
We may
have more significant elections in years to come, but it’s hard to imagine.
Decades from now, historians (and the rest of us
commoners) will look back on this 2004
election as one of the most critical of our lifetimes.
And there will be no doubt, looking back, that Bush was the right man at the
right time. Here’s another guess for you:
President Bush will go down in history as one of the great presidents of this
incredible nation. Maybe even surpassing Ronald Reagan, may he rest in peace.
Arrivederci:
I’ll be traveling next week,
and will email in an update if possible. If not, see you in two weeks.
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Thursday,
October 28,
2004 - Benj
COUNTDOWN,
BOSTON,
TRIP TO MD
President Bush has a
campaign stop in my area today around lunchtime. A friend was able to
pick up a couple tickets, so we’re going!
Five days to go until Election Day. This has
been the most
dragged out
presidential race that I can remember. It just feels like it’s
gone on forever. Here’s hoping for a clean, legally untangled victory on
Tuesday. I didn’t expect this race to stay so close, right down to the wire.
It makes everything more interesting, but also more intense. I’m still sticking
with my prediction of a Bush win. Though I wonder if he will have much of a
margin at all. 1% might be reasonable, 3% could be pushing it. Hopefully we’ll
know by late Tuesday evening.
The
Boston Red
Sox did it.
Clean sweep. The World Series in just four games. 86 years
was a long time to wait. And baseball is till the most boring sport on the
planet. BUT, it was good to see the Red Sox defeat the mighty Yankees, and then
take the big prize. Let’s hope the
Boston luck doesn’t extend to their senator in Tuesday’s
election.
J
I was in Maryland this past weekend, visiting
relatives and friends. A definite highlight was the Saturday (and Sunday) visit
to
Potbelly’s
near U of MD.
www.potbelly.com.
Those were some seriously good sandwiches (the WRECK and the ITALIAN were what I
got). Good prices. And the
bubble tea at the Japanese restaurant next door was pretty
good too.
Fighting
the good fight and finishing the course: While in Maryland, we visited two quite elderly
friends who are in the twilight of their lives. It was encouraging, in both
cases, to see the fruits of a
long life
lived in God’s service. Both were so calm, peaceful, and even
radiant. What a legacy, and what a reminder that life goes by quickly. “One
life to live, it will soon be past; only what was done for Christ will last.”
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Thursday,
October 21,
2004 - Benj
Boston Red Sox
& The Candidates: Part II
I don’t usually watch pro baseball. Too
slow paced. But last night’s unbelievable defeat of the
NY Yankees by the Boston Red Sox
was a game I should have watched. What a huge, huge upset.
Boston must be going crazy today. It’s a good thing, though, to
hear that a hugely dominant team like the NY Yankees has been
defeated. Kinda like how it felt good to see the
Los Angeles Lakers get beaten.
Chris tells me “… this is the first time in 101 years
that any team in MLB postseason history has come back to win a
series after being down 0-3.” The biggest upset ever in
sports?..........You decide.
Onto the election:
Kerry married a gazillionaire, not once but TWICE. He can barely get his wife to hug him or show
him any affection. Bush married a librarian, the daughter of a homebuilder, and
seems to have a truly uplifting, exemplary marriage.
Kerry went
to Yale, then Boston College law school. Bush went
to Yale, then Harvard University business school.
Before
politics, Kerry served as a prosecutor. Bush was
involved with several business efforts, culminating in his success as
manager/part owner of a pro baseball team, from which he got elected into the
Texas Governorship.
Bush served
as Texas governor for six years before becoming the President.
Kerry has a record of 20 years as a US Senator, and Massachusetts Lieutenant
Governor (under Dukakis) before that.
Kerry
served a tough tour of duty in Vietnam. Those Swift Boat soldiers had some serious
bravery, driving those boats up Vietnam rivers – serving as lures and targets to
get the Vietnamese to come out of hiding in the jungle and shoot at them. Bush,
on the other hand, appears to have used his connections to land a cushy
state-side assignment.
Bush seems
like the kind of guy you could sit down and enjoy a cup of coffee
with, Kerry can come off like a boring stiff.
Bush is kind of a fratboy at times. Kerry comes off as a perpetually serious
worrier.
Kerry is a
very good debater. Bush is just good. (Clinton was the master).
Bush openly
professes his faith in Christ. Kerry is much more reserved on the subject.
Bush
attends a Methodist church. Kerry is a lifelong Catholic.
Bush is a
certifiable pro-lifer. Kerry claims to be “personally pro-life”, but
has consistently voted with the pro-choice platform.
Bush is an optimist. Kerry is not quite a pessimist, but he’s not on
the optimist end of the spectrum either.
Kerry
windsurfs in Nantucket and goes skiing at his rich wife’s Idaho
retreat. Bush clears brush and cedar from his ranch in podunkville Texas.
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Thursday,
October 14,
2004 - Benj
The Candidates
I must have been tired last night, or else the
3rd presidential debate was kind of a yawner for the first hour or so.
Because somewhere around 9:30, I started dozing off. I tried to stay awake, but
couldn’t. So I called it a night around 9:50 and missed the last 40 minutes of
the debate.
Reading a couple reviews this morning, some
people are saying the debate was a draw (that’s what I thought, too, for the
part I watched). Others are saying that Bush won big and that this should give
him a boost that will carry him to an election victory. Cross your fingers.
Two big issues in this election, for me, are
national security and the War on Terror (they are inter-related of course). Tax
cuts, domestic spending, homosexual issues, etc are all important issues of
course. But the War on Terror over-rides all of that. We have to
not-get-killed by lunatics and reduce that threat before such lesser issues will
take the limelight the way they used to.
John Kerry :
The vice president said it well in his debate with Edwards. Paraphrase: “90
minutes of tough talk in a presidential debate can’t obscure a 30 year history
of being on the wrong side of defense issues.” For anyone who’s considering
voting for Kerry, it’s vital that you read up on his positions and votes, as a
US Senator, for the last twenty years. There is a record there, and it’s not
reconcilable with the tough talk he’s putting out in this campaign.
I admit, though, that I’ve come to appreciate him
more after seeing these debates. To me, he seems to be a likable, personable
kind of guy. He gives well-constructed answers, most of the time. And he
definitely seems more presidential than Dubya. But will the USA be
better off with a John Kerry presidency?
George W.
Bush :
We’ve had four years to see Dubya leading the country through an incredibly
difficult and divisive period in American history. He has obvious strengths
(perseverance, not a poll-driven politician, personal warmth and integrity), but
he has weaknesses as well (stubborn-ness, a lack of articulateness). I think
the lack of articulateness has hurt him significantly. Compare his speaking
ability to someone like Tony Blair, who the president was fortunate to have
standing with him for the last few years. Being able to communicate effectively
and competently, especially in such times, goes a long way toward reassuring
people. Like Winston Churchill during WW 2. Ronald Reagan during the end of
the Cold War. And like Tony Blair during this fight against terrorism.
But a
weakness in speaking and answering questions can be misleading. For many haters of Bush, they talk about his
“stupidity” and his “shallowness”. Both these charges are dismissed by those
who know him well and who’ve worked with him. Even his critics and political
opponents have spoken well of his political savvy and ability to lead.
Bush has clearly undertaken
a major, major offensive against the terrorists, world-wide. The terrorist-backing nation Libya
backing down, just five days after Saddam was captured, was a good indication of
the wake-up call that the world has received because of Bush’s tough positions.
I’m of the opinion that we are living through some of the most serious times
that we will ever live, in terms of the genuine threat to our country. And so
this election is not an “ordinary” election, if there is such a thing. But it
definitely seems weightier than the recent 2000, 1996, and 1992 elections,
doesn’t it?
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Thursday,
October 7,
2004 - Benj
The Debates
Well, there’s no
doubt that Bush lost Debate #1.
A little history:
Ronald Reagan lost his first debate against Mondale in 1984 and went on to a
massive landslide of a victory (in 84, Mondale managed to carry just one
state in the Union, his home state of Minnesota).
But Dubya
is not up against a Walter Mondale. As Friday night showed, Kerry is quite a
good debater. He came off as tough, competent, and presidential. The
president was tough too, but his occasional pauses and moments of
inarticulateness colored his performance in a negative way. A day or two after
the debate, it seemed like Kerry had drawn even in the polls. But the further
we’ve gotten into this week, and the more polls that have been taken, Bush still
appears to be in the lead – by 2-7 points. This election’s not over, but it’s
still Bush’s to lose.
Cheney versus
Edwards . I am amazed by the variable reports I have read online about who
won on Tuesday night. I agree that Edwards did a good job. Definitely. But
Cheney obliterated him. To paraphrase Chris Matthews of MSNBC, it was like
Edwards pulled out a water gun on Cheney and Cheney turned back on him with a
machine gun. NO COMPARISON. If Edwards had been up against the tough
Bush of the 2000 debates, Edwards might have won. He’s good, quite good. But
Cheney beat Edwards, hands down.
Look for
Bush and Cheney to keep hammering the Johns on their “voting for the war, but
against the troop funding”, to nail Kerry on his 30 year record as a
semi-pacifist. One of Cheney’s most effective statements on Tuesday night was
“And with respect to this particular operation, we've seen a
situation in which, first, they voted to commit the troops, to send them to war,
John Edwards and John Kerry, then they came back and when the question was
whether or not you provide them with the resources they needed -- body armor,
spare parts, ammunition -- they voted against it.
I couldn't figure
out why that happened initially. And then I looked and figured out that what was
happening was Howard Dean was making major progress in the Democratic primaries,
running away with the primaries based on an anti-war record. So they, in effect,
decided they would cast an anti-war vote and they voted against the troops."
Now if they
couldn't stand up to the pressures that Howard Dean represented, how can we
expect them to stand up to al Qaeda?”
What a great question that both reveals the politically driven
calculations of the Johns, and ties it clearly to the Al Qaeda threat.
FLUSH THE JOHNS!!!
That’s it folks. Keep up with this election.
Peace.
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Thursday,
September 30,
2004 - Benj
The Big Debate
Game On.
Bush vs. Kerry. Dumb-as-a-Rock versus The Waffler, according to the
extremists. The first of four live debates coming your way tonite at 9pm EST.
Bush has the upper hand, but Kerry’s known to fight like a wolverine when he’s
cornered. So look out. These debates should be good. Bush, according to some
pundits, has never lost a debate. But the same is said about Monsieur
Kerry. So who’s gonna win? My money’s on Bush carrying the debates and then
riding to an election victory with a three point margin.
Cheney vs
Edwards. Just one debate coming up between these two. Look for Edwards to
do well, but for Cheney to smoke his lightweight trial-jury
self.
So that leaves 2008. Hillary versus someone. Giuliani? Florida
governor Jeb Bush, the president’s little brother? Ahnold? Arnold gave a
marvelous speech at the republican convention. Take that, economic girly men.
But no one,
no one in either convention, eclipsed the sheer power and dramatics of Democratic Senator Zell
Miller skewering Kerry for the shifty, poll-driven politician that he is. All
the while exalting the president, who sits atop the opposing party. It
was quite simply one of the most powerful speeches ever delivered by a national
politician in recent memory. One for the history books.
THIS ELECTION MATTERS .
We’ve got just a few more weeks until Decision Day. So if you are of age, and
if you haven’t read through the issues and picked a candidate, then get on up
and do it. This election and 2008 may very well end up going down as two of the
most important elections in our lifetime. This is World War 3 that we’re living
through folks, make no mistake, and each vote counts.
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Thursday, August
26,
2004 - Benj
Swift Boaters vs Kerry: Who
picked this fight?
This
Swift Boat -
John Kerry feud
is getting hotter by the day. Certainly it was noble and brave of Kerry to
serve in Vietnam. The mainstream media seems to have sided with
Kerry in this feud, for now. Perhaps that's justifiable since there are
multiple versions being thrown out of what really happened during his war-time
service. Kerry should be given the benefit of the doubt, but the Swift
Boaters should not automatically be disregarded. They served bravely too,
and their story deserves to be heard. Free speech, right?
This
whole thing is picking up steam, and Kerry's been forced to fight back.
The Swift Boaters book is set to debut at the #1
spot on the NY Times Book Sales List.
People are paying
attention. This election's getting ugly right before our eyes.
Below
is a good take on all of this from today's Boston
Globe.
By Jeff Jacoby, Boston Globe Columnist
| August 26, 2004
IT WAS John Kerry, not the Swift Boat Veterans for
Truth, who picked this fight.
He was the one who made his long-ago stint in Vietnam
the centerpiece of his campaign for president. He's the one whose running mate
urges voters to take Kerry's measure by spending "three minutes with the
men who served with him 30 years ago." He's the one whose campaign ads
dwell on his combat heroics. He's the one who has repeatedly played the Vietnam
card against critics and opponents. And he's the one who challenged anyone
"who wants to have a debate about our service in Vietnam to bring it
on."
So the Swifties brought it on. Their scorching attack
on his wartime record is so effective precisely because they, like Kerry, were
there. They too went to Vietnam when so many other young men didn't. They too
fought and bled for their country. If his wartime experience lends him a certain
moral authority, it does no less for them.
That doesn't mean their version of the facts is closer
to the truth than his. There are conflicting eyewitness recollections, and, as
The
Washington Post
says, "both accounts contain significant flaws and factual errors."
Kerry certainly wouldn't be the first soldier to have embellished his war
stories; the Swift Boat vets wouldn't be the first whose passions have altered
their memories.
Of course, if Kerry really wants to silence the debate
about his medals, he can authorize the government to release all his military
records.
But that won't silence the Swifties. Because their real
beef with him is not about what he did in Vietnam. It's about what he did when
he came home.
On April 22, 1971, Kerry went before the Senate Foreign
Relations Committee to indict the American war effort in Vietnam for horrendous
war crimes. These were "not isolated incidents," he testified,
"but crimes committed on a day-to-day basis with the full awareness of
officers at all levels of command."
He offered no evidence. Instead he trumpeted the
charges of the "Winter Soldier Investigation," an antiwar gathering a
few months earlier at which men claiming to be Vietnam veterans -- many were
later exposed as frauds -- described the atrocities they had allegedly
committed.
"They told stories," Kerry said, "that
at times they had personally raped, cut off ears, cut off heads, taped wires
from portable telephones to human genitals and turned up the power, cut off
limbs, blown up bodies, randomly shot at civilians, razed villages in a fashion
reminiscent of Genghis Khan, shot cattle and dogs for fun, poisoned food stocks,
and generally ravaged the countryside of South Vietnam, in addition to the
normal ravage of war, and the normal and very particular ravaging which is done
by the applied bombing power of this country."
That is what thousands of Vietnam veterans, not to
mention countless other vets, have never forgiven or forgotten. Bob Dole, whose
right arm was crippled in World War II, suggested on Sunday that Kerry apologize
to the 2.5 million veterans he defamed. His words -- which drew immense media
coverage at the time -- helped poison public attitudes about Vietnam veterans
and the cause they had fought in. Even worse, they gave encouragement to the
enemy.
"The Viet Cong didn't think they had to win the
war on the battlefield," says Paul Galanti, who appears in the second --
and far more devastating -- Swift Boat Veterans ad, "because thanks to
these protesters they were going to win it on the streets of San Francisco and
Washington."
Galanti has good reason to remember Kerry's testimony.
He first learned of it in the notorious "Hanoi Hilton," where he spent
nearly seven years as a POW.
Kerry has never taken back his terrible slur against
his fellow soldiers -- men he now calls his "band of brothers." The
most he has been willing to say is that his words "were a little bit over
the top" and that he could perhaps "have phrased things more
artfully." He certainly doesn't regret the propaganda coup he handed the
Viet Cong: "I'm proud that I stood up," Kerry told NBC in April.
"I don't want anybody to think twice about it."
And therein lies the fundamental hypocrisy of the Kerry
candidacy.
He came to prominence as a radical opponent of the war
in Vietnam, yet now he runs for president on the strength of his service in that
war. He portrayed the men who fought there as unspeakable savages, yet now he
surrounds himself with Vietnam vets at every turn. He lent respectability to
those who demanded that America cut and run, that it abandon a beleaguered ally,
that it drop "the mystical war against communism." Yet now he insists
that he would be a tough and vigilant commander-in-chief, one who would never
disrespect allies, one in whose hands the security of the United States would be
safe.
Even after 33 years, Kerry's 1971 testimony, and his
refusal to either repudiate or corroborate it, remains unsettling -- and
relevant. For the Swift Boat vets, this fight may be personal. But all of us
have a stake in its outcome.
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Thursday, August
19,
2004 - Benj
New Life in La Familia
So I'm
heading to New Jersey this weekend.
To
see my very first niece,
Anna Susan.
And the first-born for my sister Rebecca
and her
husband Simu. The premier
grandchild for both sides of the baby's family.
Born in the wee hours on August 15th, India's Independence
day. Here's a pic of her, taken on her birthday.

And
as if one newborn in the family wasn't enough, this morning we got a 7am
phone call saying that my first cousin Shibu and his wife Nisha had safely
delivered their first-born,
a son named Nathan
Shibu
(earlier this morning).
God is
GOOD! I can already imagine those two babies, a couple years from now,
tearing up the joint wherever they are. Double
Trouble!
The
miracle of child birth. I hardly know where to start.
Maybe I won't be so tongue-tied once I have my own bambino. :-)
Two
things remain difficult for me to believe:
1.
That I am actually an uncle. I better get some respect
now, right?
2.
That my sister Rebecca is actually a mom (you'd have to have seen her in action
all these years to fully understand this, doling out wedgies
left and right to the youngstaz, good-humoredly lecturing everyone else on how
to raise their kids, and in general raising
the roof
wherever she goes... )
A friend once
told me that he wanted to become an obstetrician because
"what other job can you go to every day and actually see
miracles?". Interesting point. Is there any experience
more joyous than a baby being born? Anything more exciting?
I've
had a growing sense of excitement over the last nine months, as Rebecca got
closer and closer to her due date. I felt a need to call her almost every
day to make sure she was doing fine and that all was well. And now
that the baby's arrived ( I can confirm having heard her cry over the phone, and
having seen her live via a webcam), I find myself scarcely able to wait any
longer before catching my first real live
look... likely to occur after midnight
on Friday night.
It
somehow feels acutely
real when your
own friends or relatives have a baby. Up until these last couple years, most babies that I
knew of were born to aunts & uncles, couples at church who
were older than me, relatives of friends, etc. But now,
babies are being born to other couples who are actually friends
of mine... people my age, people at my station in
life.
And so life goes.
People getting married, having babies,
settling down.
Buying a house, minivan, car seats, diapers.... what's going
on!!!
Will I EVER get my long-desired Ford Mustang? Or
will I spend that money remodeling a house to make it more
kid-proof? What about that phat stereo system Sonia
promised me when I bought her the ROCK? Will that stereo
just be another fading dream, supplanted by the financial
realities of raising some little tykes? Jest kidding of
course... ;-)
And how come it
costs
$20,000
more on average to raise a girl than a boy !!!
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Thursday, August
12,
2004 - Benj
Cheeseburgers
What
a topic to write about, eh? (yes,
I was in numerous Canada ctiies recently (Toronto, Ottawa,
Waterloo, Windsor) and I only heard the word
"eh" used once, as opposed to hearing it a
gazillion times the last time I was there, probably 10 years
ago. Slowly but surely, is Canada getting absorbed into
the American mainstream? Even one of their national icons, Tim
Horton's doughnut & coffeeshops,
was bought out by Wendy's, an
Ohio-based company).
But
I can't help writing about one of my favorite foods this chilly
August morning (48 degrees where I live). It's summer time, grill-time, CHEESEBURGER-time.
Is there anything more savory than one that's hot-off-the-grill,
nestled into a warm roll, toppped with whatever pleases your
palate... ?
Where
to get one:
If you're passing through my neighborhood, stop by, and I'll
cook you one. I've already written about the best chain of restaurants to get
a cheeseburger at: Red
Robin.
Hands Down. If you haven't had their Bleu Ribbon
cheeseburger yet, then you just haven't lived! :-)
Here's their website:
BLEU
RIBBON BURGER: A juicy burger basted with a tangy
steak sauce & topped with crumbled Bleu cheese. Served with
onion straws, lettuce, tomatoes & zesty chipotle mayo on an
onion bun.
Other restaurant chains, for
great burgers anyway, would include Max & Erma's,
TGIFriday's, and even Chili's.
And for a "good" fast-food burger, I'd give the top vote to Burger
King's Whopper. Harold
& Kumar
notwithstanding, White Castle cooks up what must be the
blandest burger available in the fast food market (and the
tiniest... who wants to eat a tiny cheeseburger!?!?)
Choose
Your Cheese:
What kind of cheese to top off that slab of cooked beef?
Choices, choices..... PepperJack
is
high on my list, obviously so is Bleu,
and definitely the old standard sharp
cheddar.
If you can find some applewood
smoked
cheddar,
mmmmmmmmmm.... now that's a treat.
Wild
Game:
A
long time back, I had a
moose
burger up in the wilds
of Montana. It was decent, just decent. A bit dry,
and definitely not as tasty as
100%
ground beef.
Do it
Right:
All
you need is some quality meat (i.e. NOT ground turkey),
non-processed cheese, and a few fresh garnishings of your choice
(tomatoes, lettuce, peanut chutney, guacamole, sour cream, ranch
salad dressing, you name it). And don't get some budget
hamburger bun, either, from your local cost-savings
grocer. Get some real bread or a roll.
Death
By Cheeseburger:
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CLICK.
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Friday,
August 6,
2004 - Benj
The
Lord Reigns
I've
recently been listening to Michael W.
Smith's "Worship" CD.
In one of the tracks, someone reads the following passage from Psalm
97:
1
The
LORD reigns,
let the earth be glad;
let the distant shores rejoice.
2 Clouds and thick darkness surround him;
righteousness and justice are the foundation of his throne.
3 Fire goes before him
and consumes his foes on every side.
4 His lightning lights up the world;
the earth sees and trembles.
5 The mountains melt like wax before the LORD ,
before the Lord of all the earth.
6 The heavens proclaim his righteousness,
and all the peoples see his glory.
What
great language
about God's glory and power... mountains melting like wax, the
earth trembling, the people seeing His glory. His glory
that is all around us, each and every day. We all have
days where we are tempted to be a little down or discouraged...
on days like that, it's good to be reminded of God's greatness,
His glory, and of all that He's done for us.
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Thursday,
July 22,
2004 - Benj
Leftists
& ABCD's
I
find myself amazed at the ongoing stupidity
of some of the
leftists out there. People who just don't GET this War on
Terrorism. People like Michael Moore who reflexively attack Bush as a liar
without any substantive reason. People who make a mockery
of Tony Blair, even though he is a true liberal who happens to
support Bush in this War. People who say Bush attacked
Iraq to steal their oil! He did it cuz his daddy was a
failure! (this was actually said in the last week by former
Democrat GA Senator Max Cleland) Or that Bush attacked
Iraq so Halliburton and Dick Cheney could get rich!
ABSOLUTELY
ABSURD!!! It almost seems that some people forget
the horrid moments on 9.11 when the
world changed.
In the post 9-11 world, a rich and crazed madman like Saddam
could not be allowed to remain in power. (Is it even worth
mentioning that Saddam had an UNDISPUTED history of murderous
atrocity against his own people and his neighbors? Are
these leftist wackos even listening to anything besides the deluded
voices
in their own heads?)
Time
for a
Rumble:
What's
with the recent veiled attack, here at IPF, toward ABCD's?
(American Born Confused Desi) Desi
is another word for
"Indians", for those who don't know. l am an
ABCD and proud of it, and so are a lot of the readers of this website, if
I had to guess.
What specifically on this website has
conveyed the following?
"..
I have been regularly reading the various articles on
IndaPhatFarm, and I have enjoyed most of them.
However at times,
I
get this feeling that
it is really difficult for Indian American kids (ABCD’s) to
accept the fact that they are Indians.
No offense to anyone ..." -Lakshmi Aunty's
excellent first column from Monday, July 19th.
WELL COUNT ME AMONG
THE OFFENDED. :-) Just
Kidding of course... Lakshmi and I are
personal friends, so I know she will take the rest of this with
a grain of salt.
Or
what about this statement: "
I
would like each one of us Indians to be really proud of having
an Indian background". Again I ask, what at this
website would have led someone to believe that any of us
Indians/ABCDs/ whatever are NOT proud of our Indian background?
Or
what about this: "One of my goals is to show you all the
real India outside of Kerala. "
(Kerala is a state in southern India, and happens to be the
state in India that many of us have roots in). Does this
mean that we all need to learn a lot about Indian life outside
of the Kerala experience? Or is this a putdown of Kerala?
Maybe
Lakshmi will answer some of the above questions in a future
column. The below commentary on ABCDs is only me
blathering on about the gap betwen ABCDs versus Indian
Nationals. And a connection should not be made with
what Lakshmi wrote a few days ago.
Two
Key Questions:
1.
Do ABCD's feel they are "better" or more "with
it" than Indian Nationals (or FOBs, a potentially
derogatory term which some ABCD's use in an affectionate way,
but others in a rather harsh, demeaning manner)? To
be addressed in a future update. (FOB = Fresh Off the
Boat).
2. Do
Indian Nationals feel they have license to look
down their noses at us ABCD's, perhaps because we don't embrace the
Motherland and the Motherland's culture to the degree that
Indian Nationals do? As an ABCD, I certainly don't expect
Indian Nationals to have the
same appreciation for America as I do (I grew up here after all,
they didn't). But I sometimes get the impression that
there is a disconnect on both sides of this divide, with
ABCDs and Indian Nationals clinging to broad, stereotypical
views of each other.
If
I
did NOT grow up in India, I can still have
appreciation for India and the Indian culture. Can't
I? If I, as an ABCD, feel conflicted about something like
arranged marriage, does that mean I don't have a proper
appreciation for Indian culture? Is my view somehow less
valid because it differs from the Indian norm?
Or
suppose I feel that
fish curry
is just a plain nasty dish to
eat, does that then imply that I don't have good taste in Indian
food? Just because most Indian natives love it? What if I feel that your average Indian meal takes
way to long to prepare, and so just skip it, and grill a
cheeseburger instead? Does that mean I am a
sell-out?
Like
any culture, the Indian culture has both its good and its
bad points. Ditto for American culture, Mexican culture,
Arab culture and so on. Those of us who've grown up in a
bi-cultural
context
may not be able to appreciate the native culture of our parents
to
the same degree as our parents themselves. But that should
not be expected or demanded. Nor should an ABCD expect his
or her parent to appreciate America to the same degree or in
the same way that an ABCD would. It SHOULD go both
ways, but it often doesn't.
Having
said all this, I personally am open to learning all I can about
India. Seriously. I especially like hearing
relatives & friends talk about current Indian events and
Indian politics (NO SURPRISE THERE RIGHT!).
And
any discourse on Indian food,
the
absolute finest cuisine in the world,
would be welcome! Yes, it takes too long to cook for
simple cheeseburger-loving chefs like me, but that doesn't mean
I won't chow down like a starved Swami when it's put in front of
me. :-)
Long
live the Motherland!
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Thursday,
July 15,
2004 - Benj
3
Big Questions, Tony Blair quote
I've
been thinking about three questions I heard at the July 4th
Christian Retreat that I attended. These were shared in the
very last meeting (Sunday morning), and were an excellent,
thought-provoking climax to the Retreat:
1.
Who Am I?
In other words, what should be my true identity? The
answer is: a child of God.
2. Who am I to serve?
We
ALL end up giving our lives for some cause. Everyone
chooses ultimately to serve something or someone. Not
choosing is a choice in itself. As a child of God, my
prime goal in life should be: to serve God in all I do. It
comes down to choosing between True Wisdom (God's) and False
Wisdom (our own human wisdom). James
3:13-17, New Living:
13If you are wise and understand God's ways, live a
life of steady goodness so that only good deeds will pour forth.
And if you don't brag about the good you do, then you will be
truly wise! 14But if you are bitterly jealous and
there is selfish ambition in your hearts, don't brag about being
wise. That is the worst kind of lie. 15For jealousy
and selfishness are not God's kind of wisdom. Such things are
earthly, unspiritual, and motivated by the Devil. 16For
wherever there is jealousy and selfish ambition, there you will
find disorder and every kind of evil.
17But the wisdom that comes from heaven is first of
all pure. It is also peace loving, gentle at all times, and
willing to yield to others. It is full of mercy and good deeds.
It shows no partiality and is always sincere.
3.
What will I accomplish?
Every day requires a renewed commitment to accomplish God's
Will and not my own. Every single day. It is in our
nature to slide back ever so quickly into serving ourselves,
doing our own will, and thereby ultimately accomplishing nothing
of value for the Kingdom.
Keep
the faith.
Major
shifting of gears here....
Regarding
the Iraq War, the WMD fiasco, who lied or not, and a perspective
on Saddam, here is Tony Blair from a
speech yesterday:
"No one
lied. No one made up the intelligence. No one inserted things
into the dossier against the advice of the intelligence services.
Everyone genuinely tried to do their best in good faith for the
country in circumstances of acute difficulty. That issue of good
faith should now be at an end ... But I have to accept, as the
months have passed, it seems increasingly clear that at the time
of invasion, Saddam did not have stockpiles of chemical or
biological weapons ready to deploy ... I have searched my
conscience, not in the spirit of obstinacy, but in genuine
reconsideration in the light of what we now know, in answer to
that question. And my answer would be that the evidence of
Saddam's WMD was indeed less certain, less well-founded than was
stated at the time. But I cannot go from there to the opposite
extreme. On any basis he retained complete strategic intent on
WMD and significant capability. The only reason he ever let the
inspectors back into Iraq was that he had 180,000 US and British
troops on his doorstep ... Had we backed down in respect of
Saddam, we would never have taken the stand we needed to take on
WMD, never have got progress on Libya ... and we would have left
Saddam in charge of Iraq, with every malign intent and capability
still in place and every dictator with the same intent everywhere
immeasurably emboldened. For any mistakes made, as the report
finds, in good faith, I of course take full responsibility. But I
cannot honestly say I believe getting rid of Saddam was a mistake
at all." - Tony
Blair.
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Thursday,
July 8,
2004 - Benj
Way
to go, John Kerry
The
VP pick of John Edwards, while predictable, was still an
excellent excellent move on John Kerry's part. He could
not have selected a better team-mate. Time alone will tell
if Kerry can win the whole shebang, but Edwards will definitely
give him a strong boost in a few ways:
Charisma
Deficit: John Kerry has about as much charisma as a flowerpot. But
John Edwards exudes it. Ronald Reagan had that mysterious
"it" factor, Bill Clinton has it, and Edwards has got
it too. It's not something that can be acquired, or John
Kerry would have sold his soul to get it - decades ago. But Edwards has
it down to the bone, and it's going to help.
Southern
Strategy:
The Democrats are weaker than a sick baby in the South.
Weak, I tell you. Edwards, born in SC and raised in NC,
gives the Democrats a fighting chance down yonder. And not
just in the Presidential Race, but in congressional and
senatorial races at national and state levels.
VP
Contrast:
Just
visualize, for a moment, the October VP debate to be held in
Cleveland (which was, by the way, the very first city to get
electricity). Speaking of electricity, think about Cheney:
bland, gray, almost boring, but very capable. Now think about
Edwards: just as slick and charming as El Maestro himself - Bill
Clinton, youthful looking, upbeat, and also very capable.
I don't buy the
argument, though, that Edwards is gonna smoke Cheney just
because Edwards was Mr. Super Trial Lawyer in his pre-political
career. Cheney cleaned
Lieberman's clock in 2000, and he did it without breaking a
sweat. This VP debate will be much better than the inevitably
boring Bush-Kerry slugfest.
Optimism
Sells:
Edwards is reportedly a sunny kind of person all the time.
I.E. the great Ronald Reagan. Even if he doesn't have much
political experience, such cheerfulness will help carry him (and
the ticket) a long, long way. Add such optimism to his
charisma, southern roots, and his speaking ability and you have
a bona-fide political force. This is going to be a tough
ticket to beat, but I think Bush & Cheney can pull it
off. It's gonna be close.
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Thursday,
July 1,
2004 - Benj
Summer Retreat, What will you do without freedom?
This
weekend, we head to the metropolis of New Freedom, Pennsylvania
for the annual summer retreat that I've been going to for the
last 10 years. ( New Freedom is just a short drive north
of Baltimore ). I hope to see some of you
readers there. There are few things
that I look forward to like these retreats that I attend
periodically. They are just
the right blend
of Christian fellowship, chilling with old friends and family,
playing sports, and late-night runs to the local fast food
joints.
John
12-21
is the focus this year for the meetings, and there is a LOT to
meditate on in these chapters. I am especially blessed by
the entire 17th chapter, which focuses on the passionate prayer
of Jesus for Himself, his disciples, and for all
believers. Verse 3 reads "Now this is eternal
life: that they may know you, the only true God, and Jesus
Christ..." How
incredible that each one of us can get to know God, personally
and intimately!
That the great Lord of the Universe would be interested in us
peons! And through such knowledge of God, we are assured
of living eternally. How humbling, and how
amazing.
At Christian gatherings like this upcoming retreat, I am always reminded of the incredible
freedom
that we have here in the USA.
Freedom to worship as we see fit, pursue whatever careers we want, freedom to go hither
and yon without fear, etc.
Which
brings me to my July
Fourth Reflections:
Monday
marked the official turnover of power in Iraq. Whether or
not you agreed with going to war in Iraq, there are three things
that stand out: 1.
Several hundred of our troops sacrificed their lives in the
cause of liberation. 2. The Iraqis have a much
better future now than they did under Monster Saddam. 3.
Al-Zarqawi and his fellow terrorist thugs demonstrate more
clearly than ever what we are up against (i.e. the brutal,
senseless slayings of Nick Berg and Paul Johnson).
An
entire country has been liberated.
Through the actions of the USA, Britain, and several other
nations. So this is a great time to be reminded of the magnificent blessings that we have in America, primarily because of the
liberty that has been here for over two centuries: liberty
in the marketplace, liberty in religious life, liberty for
families to live according to the best undersanding that they
have.
As
William Wallace asked,
"What
will you do without freedom?"
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Thursday,
June 24,
2004 - Benj
Mish
Mash
Here's
a smattering of thoughts on a few (unrelated) topics:.
God's
Masterpiece:
Let
me start with a Scripture
that's been an encouragement to me lately: "For we
are God's masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ
Jesus, so that we can do the good things He planned for us long
ago." Ephesians 2:10, New Living.
Reagan
and Church:
Last Thursday, I commented on Reagan not attending church.
A couple days later, I read this quote: "Many
Americans have heard that he rarely attended church while
president, and this is true. Because he respected his
fellow worshippers at church, he didn't want to interrupt
services with a motorcade and swarm of Secret Service officers.
He also didn't want to put others at risk should another
assassin attack. Instead, my father prayed and meditated
wherever he was. He especially liked to worship at his
beloved Rancho del Cielo, his "open cathedral", he
called it, saying it reminded him of the line from Scripture:
"I will lift up my eyes to the hills - from whence comes my
help? My help comes from the Lord." -Michael
Reagan, son of Ronald Reagan, in the June 21st issue of US News
& World Report
The
Detroit
Pistons
did it. It felt like a sweep of Los Angeles, though it
took five games to do it. Completely unexpected. LA
should have taken this like taking candy from a baby. I
was glad to see Detroit win, but I wanted to see a higher level
of basketball being played. Game
5 wasn't even worth watching in the second half, and
supposedly the owner of the lakers walked out of that game
before quarter three was over. THE OWNER OF THE TEAM
walked out. What's that tell you?
A
good place to eat a fine burger
is RED ROBIN. www.redrobin.com
can help you find a location near you. A brand new one
just opened up locally, and their gourmet burgers are superb,
served with unlimited steak fries (that's right UNLIMITED) or a
pretty good salad. The atmosphere is nice too: spacious,
airy, with comfortable booth-style seating. Try the Blue Ribbon burger or the Santa Fe
burger for a great introduction. Is there anything better
than an awesome gourmet cheeseburger???
Recent
Reading:
Christian author John
Piper
has been on my list lately. I recently was in a Bible
study that focused on an interesting article he wrote called
"Brokenhearted Joy". And then there's the two
books by him that I'm reading: Desiring God and The
Passion of Jesus Christ. Both are quite good so
far. Check out Piper's website: www.desiringgod.org.
And
President Bill
Clinton's
book is now available at a bookstore near you. I doubt
I'll buy it, but I will probably end up reading at least parts
of it someday when I'm browsing at Barnes & Noble. I
don't think any president in memory holds a candle to Clinton in
terms of magnetism,
charisma, and pure intrigue.
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Thursday,
June 17,
2004 - Benj
Ronald
Reagan
So
much has been written and spoken about our former President in
the last several days,
including an article
about Reagan's "remarkable humility" from the Boston
Globe that I've posted below. I don't presume to think
that I could add much to the accolades. But I'll try.
I
find the
timing
of Reagan's death to be astounding. God's timing. Jim Jordan, a former manager in Kerry's
campaign, admitted that he and other Democratic operatives have
been deathly scared of Reagan passing away during the last three
presidential election cycles. Because of the potential
impact it could have on the voters. And now Reagan has
passed away right in the middle of a campaign that is unlike any
we have seen before: the first campaign being waged
after the nationally-defining horror of 9-11.
One
thing that troubles me
about Reagan: he was not a church goer. It is clear
that he believed deeply in God and the Bible, but seeking
fellowship and Christian brotherhood doesn't seem to have been a
major focus of his life. I know that there are many, many
Christians out there who are in a similar situation - but the Word
is clear on this: we ARE to regularly meet together with
others in the faith, i.e. "not forsaking the assembling of
yourselves together, as the manner of some is."
- Hebrews 10:25. Last Wednesday night, however, we heard a
speech that he gave in 1983 to a group of Christian
broadcasters, and there is simply no denying the rock-solid
faith that he had in God, the Bible, and the power of the
Christian community for good.
I've
read a couple books in the past about Reagan, and overall I am
left with the impression that he was a tremendously
decent,
uplifting, romantic, and caring
type of man. Definitely a role model in so many
ways. May his memory be forever blessed.
The modest giant
By Jeff Jacoby |
June 10, 2004
RONALD REAGAN was the first president I
was old enough to vote for and the only one I have ever voted
for with enthusiasm. He was the preeminent influence on my
political coming of age -- so much so that to this day, "Reaganite"
is the label that best sums up my political worldview.
For those of us who so admired Reagan
during his presidency -- and who remember the mockery and
disdain to which he was so often subjected -- the tributes that
have been pouring forth since Saturday help make the sorrow of
his death and the awful sickness that preceded it more bearable.
History, as he always knew it would, has vindicated him. The man
once dismissed as an "amiable dunce" and reviled as a
warmonger is now acknowledged as a courageous visionary, an
apostle of decency and liberty who left the world far better
than he found it.
"The American sound," Reagan
said in his second inaugural address, "is hopeful,
big-hearted, idealistic, daring, decent, and fair." Much
the same could be said of Reagan himself. All week long, the
accolades have emphasized the character and values that made him
the man he was -- his optimism, his patriotism, his
self-deprecating humor, his moral clarity, his rocklike belief
that freedom is the birthright of every human being, his
willingness to call evil by its name, his faith in God, his
sheer guts.
But one trait has gone largely
unmentioned: His remarkable humility.
In her moving and affectionate account
of the 40th president's life, "When Character Was
King," Peggy Noonan says that when she really wants to
convey what Reagan was like, she tells the "bathroom
story."
It occurred in 1981, shortly after the
assassination attempt. Reagan was still in the hospital and one
night, feeling unwell, he got out of bed to go to the bathroom.
"He slapped water on his face, and water slopped out of the
sink," Noonan relates. "He got some paper towels and
got down on the floor to clean it up. An aide came in and said:
`Mr. President, what are you doing? We have people for that.'
And Reagan said, oh, no, he was just cleaning up his mess, he
didn't want a nurse to have to do it."
That was Reagan: On his say-so armies
would march and fighter jets scramble, but he hated to trouble a
hospital orderly to mop up his spill. That humbleness, it seems
to me, is a mark of Reagan's greatness, too -- and a key to
understanding the outpouring of affection his death has
unleashed.
Though he came from nothing -- poor
family, alcoholic father, no status, nothing to boast about --
Reagan considered himself no less entitled to respect and a
chance to prove himself than those who had much more. But if no
man was his better, neither was he the better of any man. That
instinctive sense of the equality of all Americans never left
him -- not even when he stood at the pinnacle of fame and power.
In reminiscences this week, former
staffers have described what it was like to work for the
president. Several have recalled how, even when they were at the
bottom of the pecking order, he never made them feel small or
unworthy of notice. To the contrary: He noticed them, talked to
them, made them feel special.
Reagan climbed as high as anyone in our
age can climb. But it wasn't ego or a craving for honor and
status that drove him, and he never lost his empathy for
ordinary Americans -- or his connection with them, as we now
know from his private correspondence.
He was a lifelong letter writer --
perhaps the most prolific correspondent of any president since
Jefferson. A collection of his letters was published last year
("Reagan: A Life in Letters"), and it is striking to
see how many of them were written -- by hand, usually -- to
angry or disappointed critics, many of them unimportant people
he had never met. He is unfailingly polite and respectful; often
he is touchingly earnest in his attempt to get them to see his
side of an issue.
And why would the president of the
United States devote so much time to answering mail from
complete nobodies? In part because he never forgot his own
modest roots. He was a genuinely humble man, one who didn't
scorn others as "complete nobodies." For who knew
better than he just how far a "nobody" from nowhere
might someday go?
On June 3, 1984, Reagan visited
Ballyporeen, the County Tipperary hamlet where his
great-grandfather was born in 1828.
"Today I come back to you as a
descendant of people who are buried here in paupers'
graves," he said. "Perhaps this is God's way of
reminding us that we must always treat every individual, no
matter what his or her station in life, with dignity and
respect. And who knows? Someday that person's child or
grandchild might grow up to become the prime minister of Ireland
-- or president of the United States."
In his first inaugural address, Reagan
described George Washington as both "a monumental man"
and "a man of humility." The two qualities merged in
the nation's first president. They merged again in the 40th. May
he rest in peace.
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Thursday,
June 10,
2004 - Benj
Give
me some Ribs, J-Lo, Indian Weddings
Well
I was going to write about the great and honorable Ronald
Reagan
for
today's update. But we've been seeing his image all week
in print, on TV, hearing audio clips on the radio, etc
etc. Inundation. So I'll save my eulogy for another
time. Maybe next week.
Monday
night we fired up the new
grill
and cooked some indian-spiced ribs. Sonia made the
marinade and I didn't watch so I can't tell you how to make some
yourself. Cooked to perfection. Mmm.... I think I'll
stop writing and go eat. :-)
This
new grill is the first thing I've ever assembled that actually worked
when assembly was complete. Normally my
klutz-of-a-self
has to tamper with the "finished product" to get it to
work right, i.e. unscrewing this, reopening that, slamming
something against the wall, and yelling about the glories of the
pre-civilized world when people didn't have to deal with such
blasted gadgets.
So
it was a nice feeling to slowly turn on that valve on the newly
filled gas tank. Wait 15 seconds, and then turn on the
ignition, hear the click-click-click for a few seconds and then
WHOOSH the fiery gas comes piping up. I couldn't believe
it.
Next
topic: can you believe that J-Lo
got hitched again? Of course you can! She's the next
Elizabeth Taylor. 50 years from now she'll need all 10
fingers and all 10 toes to count her innumerable
marriages. How pathetic. Let's hope she fades,
fades, fades,
fades away.
Speaking
of marriages, it's that time of the year again. How
many weddings have you been to yet this season? Hopefully
NONE. If there's one thing I do NOT like, it's Indian
weddings. Here's a
horrible
generalization
for you: Most
Indian weddings are too crowded, too long, too pretentious, and
there's not
enough time to chat with the people that you actually wanna
chill with. So far we are only scheduled to attend one
wedding this year, and it'll be one of the few weddings I've attended
that's cross-cultural: a malayalee from DC marrying a
Toronto Caucasian.
Which
brings me to the extremely interesting topic of
interracial marriages. But my time is up. Tune in
next week. Ronald Reagan or Interracial Marriages.
I'll toss a coin.
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Thursday,
June 3,
2004 - Benj
Graduation
& College
I
was in MD this past weekend for the graduation
party
of my little cuzzin Becky (aka SHABOOQUA). Being there
brought back memories of my own high school graduation many
moons ago.
First
of all,
I want to publicly go on record and say that for most people, it's no big deal
to graduate high school. As I told Becky, "GIRL YOU
BETTER GRADUATE FROM HIGH SCHOOL OR I WILL THROTTLE
YOU". :-)
Secondly,
I
will now contradict myself and
say that it is an achievement to finish high school and
to finish it well like Becky did. God
wants us to do our work wholeheartedly and cheerfully
- whether it be high school, college, working at Potbelly's,
computer programming, seeing patients, ministering in the Church
- whatever it may be.
Looking
back, I'd say that my
college years were some of the best.
New friends, all kinds of social activity, interesting
philosophy classes, reading different sorts of books than I'd
ever read before, being involved with on-campus Christian
ministry, studying for tests and writing papers, playing a lot
of racquetball, developing an interest in politics, etc.
All
right, enough reminiscing. But if there's any advice I
could give to Becky and other college-bound people, it would be
this: LIVE
IT UP! ENJOY YOURSELF! WALK WITH GOD!
MAKE THE MOST OF THE NEXT FOUR YEARS!
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Thursday,
May 20,
2004 - Benj
Gangsta
Station Wagon, Ibrahim
& the Great Satan
The
all new Dodge
Magnum.
Whachoo
think?
Personally,
I like it. I have yet to see one driving on the road, but
the pictures look good. Now this doesn't mean that I'd go buy
one or anything. But it looks pretty distinct and pretty
hip for a station wagon!
IraqtheModel
is where the below comes from. The story shines a light
on the tangible benefits that the Coalition has bought to Iraq,
along with revealing some of the angst about the
"occupation".
Which
has been better for Iraq, SADDAM or the USA?
"My
young cousin is a religious Sunni who goes to the mosque and
listens to the cleric there every Friday and believes whatever
he says, as he’s still young. My uncle always teased his son
about this but never prohibited him from doing that. We were
talking about different stuff; the kids’ needs, clerics,
Americans and the increase in the average income of most
Iraqis.
My
uncle had some unusual sense of humor that didn’t fit quite
well in his somewhat religious family. He winked at me and
turned to his son and asked him "What do you think of the
Americans?" His son answered, "They are
occupiers". "So you think we should fight
them?" his father asked. Ibrahim said "No, but
I don’t like them".
My
uncle said, pretending to change the subject
"Do you like your new computer that no one shares with
you?" "Yes of course dad". "Ok, are you
satisfied with the satellite dish receiver we have or do you
need a better one?" "This one is fine but I
heard there’s a better one that gets more channels"
"ok I’ll get you that next week". Then he said,
"Is there anything else you’d like to have
son?" "No dad I have all that I need".
"Ok
but how about a car?" Ibrahim was astounded and
said "Really? a..a CAR.. for me!?". "Of
course for you! I'm too old to drive now and my eyes are not
that well and you are the older son. So whom else would it be
for!?" "Oh, dad that will be great! When will
that happen?" "Just finish you’re exams and
you’ll have it".
"I will dad".
"Are
you happy now son?" "Yes dad, sure I
am!" "Then why do you hate the Americans you
son of a b***h!? I couldn’t get you a bicycle a year ago, I
could hardly feed you and your brothers and sisters. You
didn't know what an apple or a banana tasted like, I
couldn’t buy you a damned Pepsi bottle except in occasions,
and now you can have all that you wish, and a car of your own!
Who do you think made that possible!?" My cousin's
face turned red and didn’t answer as we laughed and I said
"What do you think Ibrahim?"
He said,
"Well it’s true but it’s our money. They are not
giving us a charity" and I said "Of course it’s
our money, so let’s forget the Billions of dollars they are
giving to rebuild Iraq and the efforts they are making to cut
down our debts and lets talk about our money. Why didn’t
your father, I, my brothers and all the Iraqis have anything
worth mentioning before the Americans came?" He said,
"Because Saddam used it to buy weapons and build
palaces".
"There
you have it Ibrahim, but Americans are not touching our money.
Can you tell me who’s better; the ‘occupiers’ who are
helping us or the ‘patriot’ who did all that you know to
us?" He said in a faint voice "They are better than
Saddam but still they are not Muslims". "So do you
want them to be Muslims?" "I wish they were."
"Will you fight them to that?" he said, "No, of
course not. I don’t like fighting." We didn’t want to
pressure and embarrass him further and didn’t go further, as
he’s still young but he’s smart and good-natured and will
get it soon."
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Thursday,
May 13,
2004 - Benj
IPF-mobile, Bush's Humanity, 24
Above
is my entry for the IPF-mobile.
Even better than an H2. Can you imagine Chris & Binu
riding around town in this beast? :-)
Here's
a very relevant quote from Oklahoma Senator James Inhofe: "I'm probably
not the only one up at this table that is more outraged by the
outrage than we are by the treatment. These
prisoners, you know they're not there for traffic violations. If
they're in cellblock 1-A or 1-B, these prisoners, they're murderers,
they're terrorists, they're insurgents.
Many
of them probably have American blood on their hands and here
we're so concerned about the treatment of those individuals."
If
Senator Inhofe's remarks are in fact correct, then we may need a
serious shift in our collective outrage regarding the so-called
"abuse". These terrorists and insurgents are all
connected to each other, directly or indirectly.
Extracting information from one lunatic, by
whatever means necessary,
may somehow prevent the killing of more innocents in the
future.
The
fury over the Iraqi prisoner abuse
continues, but it has been overshadowed by the absolutely
horrific slaying of Nick Berg, an innocent US civilian.
This should clearly demonstrate the difference between ATROCITY
and ABUSE.
Berg's slaying was an atrocity; the Iraqi detainees suffered
abuse. Hopefully idiots like Ted Kennedy will now shut
their mouths, and more sane people in the party will have
increased influence (i.e. Joe Lieberman who gave a great
statement at last week's Rumsfeld grilling).
Next
subject: Here's a great
photo that reveals the very human side of Bush,
which he seems to have no trouble demonstrating. What a genuine contrast to the aloof,
lordly John Kerry.
If this election were only focused on the likability factor,
Bush would swat Kerry outta the ballpark.
During
his visit to the Golden Lamb Inn in Lebanon (near Cincinnati,
Ohio), President Bush stops to hug Ashley Faulkner, who lost her
mom in the Sept. 11 attacks.
And
to close out today's update, a shameless plug and an old picture
from the best TV show ever. And shame on you if you are
not watching it! Just a couple more episodes left in the
ongoing third season. www.fox.com/24

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Thursday,
May 6,
2004 - Benj
Disproportionate
Rage
People
across the Muslim world are infuriated
by
the abuses of Iraqi detainees at the hands of American
soldiers. And so they should be. Those abuses were
absolutely criminal and the perpetrators should be dealt with
severely.
But
where
was the outrage when
four American civilians were killed and dragged through the
streets like animals? Why is is that Americans get worked
up when their soldiers misbehave terribly against the Iraqis,
but the
Muslim world barely raises its voice
when Americans are tortured, beaten, killed, and abused?
Where was the outrage when Mullah al-Sadr refused to turn
himself in, despite proof of guilt? Why was there so
little uproar about the Iraqis who danced in the street and
sprayed bullet-fire in celebration of the heinous murder of
those four Americans?
It's
true that there was some concern expressed,
some condolences offerred. But nothing close to the level
of outrage that has swept the world because of the alleged
abuses that are coming to light.
It
starts and ends with Hatred.
Although most Muslims are far different from the fanatics that
have hijacked the religion, there is an underlying current in
the Muslim religion that infuses so many with a hatred
for America & Israel and anything non-Islam.
Even some peace-loving Muslims have an unreasonably strong bias
against Israel, and can barely utter any semblance of outrage at
the terrorist tactics of the Palestinians.
This
evil pathology needs to be cut out like the grotesque,
destructive cancer that it is. And that's what this War on
Terror is all about in the end: bringing
change to a hate-filled, morally deprived region of the world.
In
closing, a quote from war historian Victor Davis Hanson: "...
there is an asymmetry about the coverage of the incident, an
imbalance and double standard that have been predictable
throughout this entire brutal war.
The Arab
world -- where the mass-murdering Osama bin Laden is often
canonized -- is shocked by a pyramid of nude bodies and
faux-electric prods, but has so far expressed less collective
outrage in its media when the charred corpses of four Americans
were poked and dismembered by cheering crowds in Fallujah. The
taped murder of Daniel Pearl or a video of the hooded Italian
who had his brains blown out -- this is the daily fare that
emanates now from the television studios of the Middle East.
Indeed, if
Al-Arabiya and Al-Jazeera could display the same umbrage over
mass murder that they do over these recent accounts of shame and
humiliation of the detained Iraqis, much of the gratuitous
violence of the Middle East would surely diminish. The papers
that now allege war crimes are the same state-controlled and
censored media that print gleeful accounts of death and
desecration of Westerners and promulgate an institutionalized
anti-Semitism not seen since the Third Reich."
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Thursday,
April 29,
2004 - Benj
Iraq
& Politics
Surprisingly, all the negative news out of Iraq of
late has helped President Bush. The latest polls
show him slowly widening a lead over Kerry, and they also show
that the American people trust Bush more in leading the war on
Terror.
The Democrats, not so subtly, have been assuming that
a worsening of conditions in Iraq would help Kerry.
The last month has proven that assumption false, and has left
Kerry in a weakened state.
Where do things go from here? John Kerry has a tough road to
walk, and the smart money is still on Bush winning by a slim
margin. Conservative optimists, of course, are predicting
a Bush landslide.
Could it be that if things improve in Iraq, that Kerry gets helped? Something
along the lines of: Iraq stabilizes, Bush is duly granted
his victory, the nation begins focusing on other things (health
care, jobs, etc). And accordingly Bush is no longer viewed
just in light of the war on terror?
If this election ends up being about the Terror War & Iraq, Bush wins big. If it begins to
shift to other domestic issues, then it'll be a fight to the
finish. With the smart money still on Bush.
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Thursday,
April 22,
2004 - Benj
Taking
Control of a Quality Life -
Chuck Swindoll
ü
Make and cultivate a few very close friends
ü
Stay in touch with
people
ü
Read widely
ü
Exercise regularly
and strenuously
ü
Turn the TV off
ü
Commune with God
ü
Fight the rut of
routine
ü
Leave time for
leisure
ü
Have more fun
ü
Take up a hobby or
pastime that gets you outdoors
ü
Don’t let your
occupation enslave you
ü
Eat less
ü
Laugh more
ü
Quit fussing
ü
Pray everywhere and
at all times
ü
Encourage at least
one person everyday
ü
Stop living for money
ü
Invest in people (and
eternal commodity)
ü
Plant a garden
ü
Trust God for
something that seems impossible
ü
Loosen up your
intensity
ü
Stop taking yourself
so seriously
ü
Start today
Chuck Swindoll
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Thursday,
April 15,
2004 - Benj
The
Pop of Benj, Round 4
The
Rise of Trump:
The
Donald has managed to raise his TV show, "The
Apprentice" pretty high into the ratings
stratosphere. I saw it for a few minutes during the very
first episode, and found the cheese
factor
to be very heavy. So I didn't turn it on again until last
week, and was surprised by the big improvement. And
tonight's finale is two hours long, about two hours
longer than my tolerance for such reality TV.
Maybe
I'll catch the last 10 min. Regarding the two finalists:
Kwame
seems like a likable guy, but I think Bill
has
more of Trump's edge and drive. I could care less who
wins, though, so no predictions.
Stand
Up Loser:
As much as I admire some of Bush's traits, one thing that I
cannot stomach is his inability to handle Q&A. This
was evidenced yet again in his Tuesday night prime-time press
conference. His speech before the Q&A was good,
and some of his answers to some of the questions
were good. It's just not his thing I guess. Clinton,
Cheney, and especially Rumsfeld all leave
Bush in the dust when
it comes to thinking on their feet and communicating concisely
and articulately.
Earl
Scruggs, Banjo Master: By
hook or by crook, I will one day learn to play the banjo.
Yeah right. And Mr. Scruggs is the widely acknowledged
master of the instrument. It's not an easy instrument to
master, from what I've heard. He's still going strong,
despite recently passing the 80 year mark. Here's a recent
CNN profile.
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Thursday,
April 8,
2004 - Benj
Condi
Rice, Taxes, Chipotle's
Condi
Rice, President Bush's National Security Advisor, is testifying
at this very moment before the 9-11
Commission.
You can listen live at www.npr.org
or catch it on the major TV networks. I think it's good
that she and the Administration gave into the public demand, and
that she is now telling her side of things.
Turbotax:
I used
this program for the first time ever
to
do our taxes.
It went pretty smoothly the whole way (until the
very end). But I really don't know if I saved any time
doing it. And at the end, I had to do a major download
from Turbotax's website to obtain the needed fonts which allowed
me to print all the paperwork. How
stupid!
You would think that everything you would need would be on the
CD-ROM itself, without additional downloads needed.
Especially for something as basic as PRINTING documents.
I
recently heard about the whole Fair
Tax concept,
which would entirely eliminate the income tax system and be
replaced by a national retails sales tax. No more 1040's,
no more April 15th deadlines, etc. The more you buy, the
more you pay taxes. The less you buy, the less you
pay. And
ZERO tax on earned income.
How's that sound? For more info, check out www.fairtax.org.
A
brand new Chipotle's
has opened up less than 10 minutes from the homestead.
Have you eaten at a Chipotle's yet? If not, you are
missing out! For real, this is some of the best
gourmet Mexican food
ever. Check it out. Here's a promo from www.chipotle.com:
"It started like this . . . a classically trained chef decides to put his unique culinary take on burritos and tacos. He's focused. Obsessed with using only the finest, freshest ingredients. Runs the kitchen of his little burrito joint like that at the five-star restaurant where he honed his skills. Prepares everything fresh each day. Spends hours getting everything perfect, so your order is ready in seconds. After all, just because food is served quickly is no reason you can't have a great meal.
It's that kind of attention-to-detail that sets Chipotle apart. We only serve a few things, so we can concentrate on doing them very well. And we use only the best ingredients. But they're simple. And that idea, taking something simple and elevating it to something special is what Chipotle is all about. It's all summed up in our name. A chipotle pepper is just a simple jalapeño pepper that's been smoked and dried elevating it from ordinary to something extraordinary. Tasting is believing.
"
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Thursday,
April 1,
2004 - Benj
Breather
I'm
heading to a Christian Men's Retreat this weekend; it'll be
great to have a breather
from the recent rush of life. There is something so relaxing about being at a retreat setting:
surrounded by trees and God's great creation, sleeping in
cabins, heading to the lodge for coffee and fellowship,
encouraging teaching, uplifting Praise & Worship,
etc.
Speaking
of Christian Men, I recently heard and was blessed by this Twila
Paris song:
Come
and join the reapers,
All
the Kingdom seekers
Laying
down your life to,
Find
it in the end.
Come
and share the harvest;
Help
to light the darkness
For
the Lord is calling faithful
men.
That's
all for today folks. See you next week.
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Thursday,
March 25,
2004 - Benj
Busy,
busy...
You know how there can be stretches in life where things seem
really busy? Maybe the stretch lasts for a week, maybe for
months. I feel like I am in the middle of
such a busy period right now. Going
100
mph in all directions,
so to speak.
But
it's all good. Idle hands are the devil's workshop, as the
old saying goes. The main thing is to stay
on the Christian journey
in the midst of everything we do. To not lose focus on
what is eternal, and on what really matters. Regardless
of
what else is going on.
Colossians
3:2-3, New Living - "Let
heaven fill your thoughts.
Do not think only about things down here on earth .... your real
life is hidden with Christ in God."
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Friday,
March 19,
2004 - Benj
Is
this World War III?
We've
arrived at the one-year anniversary of
Operation
Iraqi Freedom.
Below is an article by Secretary of Defense Donald Rumsfeld,
from today's NY TIMES.
If
you have a little extra time,
here's
a link to an article from Wednesday's Baltimore Sun about the
ramifications of the 3-11 Madrid terrorist attacks.
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March 19, 2004
OP-ED CONTRIBUTOR, NEW YORK
TIMES
The Price of Freedom in Iraq
By DONALD H. RUMSFELD
ASHINGTON
This week, as we mark the one-year
anniversary of the beginning of Operation Iraqi Freedom, it is
useful to recount why we have fought. Not long ago I visited
South Korea, just as the Korean government was debating whether
to send troops to Iraq. In Seoul, I was interviewed by a Korean
journalist who was almost certainly too young to have firsthand
recollection of the Korean War. She asked me, "Why should
Koreans send their young people halfway around the globe to be
killed or wounded in Iraq?"
As it happened, I had that day visited
a Korean War memorial, which bears the names of every American
soldier killed in the war. On it was the name of a close friend
of mine from high school, a wrestling teammate, who was killed
on the last day of the war. I said to the reporter: "It's a
fair question. And it would have been fair for an American to
ask, 50 years ago, `Why should young Americans go halfway around
the world to be killed or wounded in Korea?' "
We were speaking on an upper floor of a
large hotel in Seoul. I asked the woman to look out the window
— at the lights, the cars, the energy of the vibrant economy
of South Korea. I told her about a satellite photo of the Korean
peninsula, taken at night, that I keep on a table in my Pentagon
office. North of the demilitarized zone there is nothing but
darkness — except a pinprick of light around Pyongyang —
while the entire country of South Korea is ablaze in light, the
light of freedom.
Korean freedom was won at a terrible
cost — tens of thousands of lives, including more than 33,000
Americans killed in action. Was it worth it? You bet. Just as it
was worth it in Germany and France and Italy and in the Pacific
in World War II. And just as it is worth it in Afghanistan and
Iraq today.
Today, in a world of terrorism, weapons
of mass destruction and states that sponsor the former and
pursue the latter, defending freedom means we must confront
dangers before it is too late. In Iraq, for 12 years, through 17
United Nations Security Council resolutions, the world gave
Saddam Hussein every opportunity to avoid war. He was being held
to a simple standard: live up to your agreement at the end of
the 1991 Persian Gulf war; disarm and prove you have done so.
Instead of disarming — as Kazakhstan, South Africa and Ukraine
did, and as Libya is doing today — Saddam Hussein chose
deception and defiance.
Repeatedly, he rejected those
resolutions and he systematically deceived United Nations
inspectors about his weapons and his intent. The world knew his
record: he used chemical weapons against Iran and his own
citizens; he invaded Iran and Kuwait; he launched ballistic
missiles at Iran, Israel, Saudi Arabia and Bahrain; and his
troops repeatedly fired on American and British aircraft
patrolling the no-flight zones.
Recognizing the threat, in September
2002
President Bush went to the United Nations, which gave Iraq still
another "final opportunity" to disarm and to prove it
had done so. The next month the president went to Congress,
which voted to support the use of force if Iraq did not.
And, when Saddam Hussein passed up that
final opportunity, he was given a last chance to avoid war: 48
hours to leave the country. Only then, after every peaceful
option had been exhausted, did the president and our coalition
partners order the liberation of Iraq.
Americans do not come easily to war,
but neither do Americans take freedom lightly. But when freedom
and self-government have taken root in Iraq, and that country
becomes a force for good in the Middle East, the rightness of
those efforts will be just as clear as it is today in Korea,
Germany, Japan and Italy.
As the continuing terrorist violence in
Iraq reminds us, the road to self-governance will be
challenging. But the progress is impressive. Last week the Iraqi
Governing Council unanimously signed an interim Constitution. It
guarantees freedom of religion and expression; the right to
assemble and to organize political parties; the right to vote;
and the right to a fair, speedy and open trial. It prohibits
discrimination based on gender, nationality and religion, as
well as arbitrary arrest and detention. A year ago today, none
of those protections could have been even imagined by the Iraqi
people.
Today, as we think about the tens of
thousands of United States soldiers in Iraq — and in
Afghanistan and elsewhere around the world fighting the global
war on terrorism — we should say to all of them: "You
join a long line of generations of Americans who have fought
freedom's fight. Thank you."
Donald H. Rumsfeld is the secretary
of defense.
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Thursday,
March 11,
2004 - Benj
And
Can It Be
Here
are two great verses and the chorus from "And Can It Be",
by Charles Wesley. This
classic
was recently sung at church, and blessed me. There is
something weighty and moving about these older
hymns, especially those written by such heroes of the faith like
Charles Wesley.
Easter
is approaching, the Passion movie has just been released to much
controversy, and it's as good a time as any to consider this
question:
How
much do I value what Christ accomplished for me through His
life, His death and resurrection?
And
can it be that I should gain
An
interest in the Savior's blood?
Died
He for me, who caused his pain?
For
me, who Him to death pursued?
Chorus:
Amazing love! How can it be
That Thou, my God, shouldst die for me?
Long
my imprisoned Spirit lay
Fast
bound in sin and nature's night;
Thine
eye diffused a quickening ray,
I
woke, the dungeon flamed with light;
My
chains fell off, my heart was free;
I
rose, went forth and followed Thee.
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Thursday,
March 4,
2004 - Benj
Bush
Vs. Kerry
It's
official. Bush even surprised Kerry on Tuesday night by
phoning him to congratulate him on all his primary wins, and to
wish him well in the upcoming campaign.
Everyone
SAYS
that
this is going to be a hard-fought campaign which will
likely end up in a fairly close election.
With
Bush prevailing.
But
with eight months left to go until the election, who knows what
will happen? Who can even try to predict what will
happen?
After
all, the last several months have seen the steep decline of
Kerry, the steep incline of Howard Dean, then the simultaneous
implosion of Dean and the Kerry
explosion.
And John Edwards made it much further than anyone expected him
to. Just a few months ago, people anticipated a Bush
vs. Dean presidential race.
Which would have been one of the more interesting presidential
campaigns in recent memory. But it wasn't meant to
be. (And Bush would have blown Dean away, no doubt about
it).
Bush
has a very, very solid team behind him. He will be
formidable. But Kerry is no lightweight, even though the
"massachusetts
liberal"
label will be hard to shake. Bush's common-man appeal
really helped him in 2000, and will help him again.
Contrast that with Kerry's aristocratic, somewhat snobbish
bearing which won't play well with much of the
electorate.
But
the Democrats
are worked up,
mad, and organized. Their
loss in 2000, coupled with the sound beating they took in 2002,
and then exacerbated by Howard Dean's inflaming rhetoric has
produced a very very strong desire to beat Bush. At
whatever cost.
This
should be good.
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Thursday,
February 19,
2004 - Benj
Above
All
This
song, by Lenny LeBlanc and Paul Baloche, has been ministering to
me lately. So I thought I'd share it with you
readers. Hopefully most of you know the tune and have been
blessed by it yourself. If you haven't heard it before,
I'd recommend getting it on CD - it's a
powerful
song.
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Above
all powers above all kings
Above
all nature and all created things
Above
all wisdom and all the ways of man
You
were here before the world began.
Above
all kingdoms above all thrones
Above
all wonders the world has ever known
Above
all wealth and treasures of the earth
There's
no way to measure what you're worth.
Chorus:
Crucified, laid behind a stone
You
lived to die, rejected and alone
Like
a rose trampled on the ground
You
took the fall, and thought of me
Above
all.
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Thursday,
February 12,
2004 - Benj
Fat
Atkins?
Well,
was he fat or not?
Should people stop counting carbohydrates? Tuesday's
revelation from the Wall Street Journal was that Dr. Robert
Atkins weighed over 250 pounds at the time of his death.
(250 pounds for a six-footer is pretty hefty). Could it be
any coincidence that a pro-vegetarian
group
pushed for the illegal release and subsequent publication of this
private medical information?
Was the weight gain really just from
his medical conditions as his physicians claim, or was the good doctor pigging
out on carbohydrates and ballooning like a whale?
Check out the article below from CNN. I remember seeing him on Larry
King Live just a couple months before his demise, and he didn't look
fat. Less than 200, if I had to guess.
Lose
the poundage:
Millions
and millions of people around the world have subscribed to the
low-carb dieting that Atkins pioneered. Especially in
America and England, lands of the free,
fat, and brave.
He wasn't the first medical professional to ever write about the
successes of this type of eating, but he certainly did more than
anyone else in the last fifty years to popularize the low carb
lifestyle. Don't worry about your fat intake! Eat
meat, cheese, & butter! And get thin at the same
time! And watch your cholesterol and blood pressure levels
DROP ! Sounds pretty unbelievable but there are loads of
devotees out there for whom it has
worked.
Look,
ANYTHING
beats a low-fat regimen.
Low-fat diets leave you perpetually hungry. As if yogurts
for breakfast and side salads for lunch are sustainable. YOU MIGHT AS WELL STARVE YOURSELF.
But low-carb, on the
other hand, pretty much allows you to NOT feel hungry most of
the time. And if you mix your fat & protein (meat,
cheese) with some veggies and fruit, it's really not too
bad.
Plug
for carbs: McDonald's
breakfast biscuits
are a pleasure to eat (and loaded with carbs, sad to say).
Try one with sausage, egg, and cheese sometime and then go hit
the treadmill for 30.
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NEW YORK (AP) -- Dr. Robert
Atkins, whose popular diet stresses protein-rich meat and cheese
over carbohydrates, weighed 258 pounds at his death and had a
history of heart disease, a newspaper reported Tuesday.
Atkins died last April at age 72 after
being injured in a fall on an icy street.
Before his death, he had suffered a
heart attack, congestive heart failure and hypertension, The
Wall Street Journal reported, citing a report by the city
medical examiner.
At 258 pounds, the 6-foot-tall Atkins
would have qualified as obese, according to the Centers for
Disease Control and Prevention's body-mass index calculator.
Diet is one potential factor in heart
disease, but infections also can contribute to it.
Stuart Trager, chairman of the Atkins
Physicians Council in New York, told the Journal that Atkins'
heart disease stemmed from cardiomyopathy, a condition thought
to result from a viral infection.
Trager said the weight was added
between his accident and his death, and in fact Atkins weighed
less than 200 pounds at the time he was injured.
"During his coma, as he
deteriorated and his major organs failed, fluid retention and
bloating dramatically distorted his body and left him at 258
pounds at the time of his death, a documented weight gain of
over 60 pounds," the doctor said in a written statement.
"How and why the Journal reported that he was obese,
remains the only unanswered question in this pathetic
situation."
Atkins widow outraged
The medical examiner's report was given
to the Journal by the Physicians Committee for Responsible
Medicine, a group that advocates vegetarianism. The medical
examiner's office told the Journal that the report had been sent
to the group in error.
Ellen Borakove, spokeswoman for the New
York City office of the chief medical examiner, said the records
would not be released to anyone else, but they clearly indicate
that Atkins died from the head injury.
The diet guru's widow, Veronica Atkins,
was outraged that the report had been made public and called
those who gave the medical examiner's report to the newspaper
"extremists."
"I have been assured by my
husband's physicians that my husband's health problems late in
life were completely unrelated to his diet or any diet,"
she told the Journal.
Last month, Veronica Atkins demanded an
apology from Mayor Michael Bloomberg after Bloomberg called her
late husband "fat."
In April 2002, Atkins issued a
statement saying he was recovering from cardiac arrest related
to a heart infection he had suffered from "for a few
years." He said it was "in no way related to diet.
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Thursday,
February 5,
2004 - Benj
Politics
Watch
President
Bush's
approval
ratings have dropped, for the first time ever, to just
below the 50% mark. The pundits are blaming a
"disastrous" state of the Union speech, consistent and
withering attacks from the Democratic presidential candidates,
the lack of Weapons of Mass Destruction in Iraq,
etc.
Personally,
I thought
the
speech was fine
- perhaps not his best, but certainly not
"disastrous". And the political season is
heating up; Bush is bound to suffer at least somewhat at the
hands of his rivals' attacking him non-stop, 24/7. Just
wait and see what happens when the Democrats finally pick their
candidate, and Team Bush unleashes their mad dogs on the
poor
fool.
Guess
who dominated
on Tuesday, winning five out of seven state primaries across the
country? Senator
John Kerry
continues to be on a roll. Time magazine has a
decent set of articles on Kerry this week, and also a good
article about his multi-millionaire wife Teresa Heinz, of
ketchup fame.
General
Clark won in
Oklahoma, and
John
Edwards won
by a large margin in South Carolina.
Joe
Lieberman
didn't win anywhere, and made the decision to quit the race.
Probably the right thing for him to do. It's amazing that
he didn't do better, having run in the VP slot in 2000 and being
a centrist candidate and all that. Oh well. But I
was glad to see Edwards post such a big win in SC. He is a
formidable candidate and this means that the fight for the
nomination will go on. (Edwards was set to drop out of
the race if he lost South Carolina.)
Howard
Dean pretty
much bypassed Tuesday's primaries to focus on the upcoming
primaries in Michigan and Wisconsin, where he believes he has a
chance of regaining some momentum. We'll see.
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Thursday,
January 29,
2004 - Benj
The
Pop of Benj, Round #3
First,
a
warm welcome to the new columnists for the
"Inspirations"
section of this website. Your weekly contributions should
be a great addition to this ever-growing
behemoth.
Round
#3.
The notorious Bennifer
has finally, thankfully come to a halt. What
say you? As if this was a surprise of any sort. For
my part, I would be glad to see both Jen & Ben depart from
the celebrity universe. Each of them has become
increasingly boring and increasingly plastic.
Oscar
Season
is
upon us, and Lord of the Rings is dominant with
eleven
nominations. It has also earned more money than any other
2003 film with $877 million earned by this past weekend, putting
it ahead of Finding Nemo. You heard it here: If LOTR doesn't
garner the trophy for Best Picture, then it's gonna be a genuine
and unforgivable crime.
The
Pope:
Did
he or did he not endorse Mel Gibson's upcoming film about the
last few days of the life of Jesus? Hmm..... Mel
Gibson's rep released a statement saying that they had received
permission to publicize the Pope's reaction to the film:
"It is as it was." Does that sound like an
endorsement to you? And yet the Vatican is now claiming
that the Pope never endorsed the film. Someone's
lying.
Good
book to read: The
Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe by C.S.
Lewis. First of a series of seven books that have strong
Christian insinuations. And soon to be turned into a
full-fledged movie. The boom has been unleashed with the
gigantic success of the Lord of the Rings movies.
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Thursday,
January 22,
2004 - Benj
A
Different Meatloaf
First,
a few quick political comments.
John
Kerry (first place) and John Edwards
(second place) scored in a huge way on Monday night in Iowa.
What this
means for the
Democratic race:
This
is clearly no longer a sure-fire thing for Howard Dean, Vermont
Governor. It probably means that Bush & Cheney
will have a very tough fight on their
hands if either Kerry or
Edwards wins the Democratic nomination (especially if Kerry &
Edwards team up for Pres & Vice-Pres). And keep your eye on
General Wesley Clark. Clark has learned to
become a politician at warp
speed, and
he has a lot of good people working for him.
Now,
onto more important matters, namely FOOD.
Use
this recipe sometime if you're in the mood for meatloaf.
It's
good with ground turkey or ground beef, take your pick.
You can "indianize" it by adding some red pepper
and cumin.
What
I like about this recipe is that it falls within my "lazy
cook"
guidelines: it tastes good and it can be prepared and placed in the oven in
less than 20-30
minutes.
Then it bakes for an hour and VOILA you'll have a fine entree to
ingest. It won't be as good as your momma's time-consuming
Indian curries, but then you won't spend a full day slaving in
the kitchen either. So rustle up the ingredients, chop and
mix for a few minutes, stick it in the oven for an hour, and
move on. Serves four. www.yumyum.com
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Ingredients:
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1
1/4 lb
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Ground
turkey or ground beef
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1
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Egg,
beaten
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3/4
c
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Cheddar,
cut in small cubes
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1
small
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Onion,
chopped
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1/2
med
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Green
pepper, chopped
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1
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Stalk
celery, sliced thin
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Lots
black pepper, freshly ground
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Garlic
powder to taste
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Dash
paprika
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Seasoned
salt
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1/2
c
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Milk
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1/3
c
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Breadcrumbs,
Italian-style
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3
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Slices
bacon
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Instructions:
Combine
meat through
seasonings.
Add milk and breadcrumbs.
If necessary, add a little additional milk until it just barely
keeps together in your hands when you try to pick it up.
In small open roasting pan, form into oval.
Lay strips of bacon on top.
Bake at 450 for approximately 1 hour, or until bacon is crisp.
Remove to paper towels to drain before placing on serving
platter.
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Thursday,
January 15,
2004 - Benj
Politics
Watch
Howard
Dean reads the Bible how often? When
asked which book in the New Testament was his
favorite, he replied "Job".
Priceless.
Hillary
slams Gandhi !
She put her
foot in her mouth big-time. And this time it's no less
than a pathetic joke about
the Mahatma himself. Here's
a write-up on the incident from a conservative online magazine.
Naturally there has been no major report on it in one of the
"mainstream" online papers. This is just more
positive proof of the leftward slant of America's news
institutions.
As the article points out,
Trent Lott
would
have been in huge trouble for such a stupid joke. But then
he's a dumb Republican southern senator who has no place in
public life, right? The double standards are stupefying.
No wonder so many people listen to conservative radio, watch Fox
News, and find other news sources outside the
"mainstream".
Iowa
Caucuses:
Just four days
away. Coming up quick. Dean is in the lead in Iowa,
though John Kerry and Dick Gephardt are nipping at his
heels. And John Edwards is experiencing some forward
momentum in Iowa too. Then the New
Hampshire primary is a week later, in which General Wes Clark
may do very well. This game is still wide open for an
unexpected winner to emerge.
Are
you ready for a roaring political season? For
a lot of reasons, this will be one of the more significant
presidential elections in our lifetime. Bush
barely won in 2000.
The War on Terror. An "anti-Iraq war" candidate,
Howard Dean, is currently poised to win the Democratic
nomination. And Dean
is a street-brawler who often speaks before he thinks,
but is still able to seriously arouse the liberal base of the
Democratic Party. It's gonna be
interesting.
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Friday,
January 9,
2004 - Benj
'04
Scriptures
for 2004:
Ephesians
4:1-3, New International Version - "As a prisoner of the Lord, then, I urge you to
live a life worthy of the calling you have received. Be
completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one
another in love. Make every effort to keep the unity of
the Spirit through the bond of peace."
What
does it mean to live in a worthy way?
Worthy of the calling that each of us has received?
Here's
what I learned recently from
these
verses:
To walk worthy
means to be humble and gentle. It means being patient and
bearing with others. It means making concerted efforts to
maintain unity.
Although
we cover a number of subjects on this website, we know that
the
main thing
is to walk with God. I trust that each one of you,
in the early days of this year,
has taken time to evaluate your
relationship with Him. And that you have committed to
serve Him in a worthy way during '04.
Peace.
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