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Tuesday,
November 8, 2005
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Brenda
Astros, Hurricanes
& Anne's Journal
First off, Anne has posted her latest piece.
Click Here
to read.
This year is just zooming by faster than I don't know what. It seems like just
yesterday we were rushing to the hospital to be with my sister and
brother-in-law as they were having their first child, and he will be
turning one
in about 2 weeks.
And it's amazing how much change can happen in one year. Just here in Houston
alone we had two major events within the space of a month: the massive exodus
due to the imminent hurricane Rita that showed us how vulnerable we really are,
and the loss of our very own
Astros to the Chicago White Sox (hey, at least
they made it to the world series ;).
Of the two, the most momentous, for me, was the first one. It surprises me how
easy it was for me to forget the chaos and the feelings that accompanied it when
the hurricane was getting closer and closer and there was no way out due to the
traffic and lack of gasoline. It felt like a scene out of a movie. When my
family and I made our attempt to leave, we drove by gasoline stations, all with
plastic bags covering the nozzle and people sitting there, waiting and praying
supplies would arrive. As we all know the outcome, thankfully Houston was
spared this time. But it was a very close call.
As far as the Astros go, while I do wish they had won since they are from
Houston after all, I'm not distraught about it at all. I'm just glad they played
and had a good time. Hopefully they'll get to go to the World Series again in
the near future.
We still have two more months to go and we'll see how many changes the year
still has for us.
Until
Next time.
E-mail:
barrosb@sbcglobal.net.
Or leave a comment on the
Message Board.
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Tuesday,
August 23, 2005
-
Brenda
Life, etc.....
Last week I had the chance to go to the state of
New Jersey for my cousin’s wedding and I had quite a
wonderful time with the family.
What I could not figure out is how everyone
complains about the heat in Houston, when I thought it was just as bad in
New Jersey. But anyhow, we all had a wonderful time at the wedding and
elsewhere. And I must say that my little nephew Joseph looked quite handsome
wearing his white tuxedo. Here are a few pictures of him, the first one in
which I am holding him and he has this little cute grin on his face and the
second one in which he looks like if he were
blessing a crowd.


What can I say? He’s beautiful.
In other news, school has started for some and is
starting for others in the upcoming weeks. Best of luck in that, enjoy your last
days of freedom. I will not be going back to school this semester because I am
taking a leave of absence for a year and it is going to be a bit strange for me,
since
the last 17 years of my life have revolved in a great deal around school. I’m
sure, however, that I will adjust quite well and will not miss school
excessively.
Well, that’s all for now.
Until
Next time.
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Tuesday,
July 19, 2005
-
Brenda
Living a Life Filled
with the Spirit
I’d like to begin my update with a powerfully
inspiring quote I found in a book titled
“The Power of a Positive Woman” by Karol Ladd. While this book is specifically targeted towards
women, the quote is applicable to everyone and was originally
written by Corrie ten Boom, a Dutch holocaust survivor who went
on to find peace and healing from her experiences and helped
bring the same to many of the other survivors. In talking about
the connection between the potential our lives have and the
power of God, she compared human beings to a glove, and said
this:
“The glove can do nothing. Oh but if
my hand is in the glove, it can do many things…cook, play the
piano, write. Well, you say that is not the glove, that is the
hand in the glove that does it. Yes, that is so. I tell you that
we are nothing but gloves. The hand in the glove is the Holy
Spirit of God. Can the glove do something if it is very near the
hand? No! The glove must be filled with the hand to do the work.
That is exactly the same for us: We must be filled with the Holy
Spirit to do the work God has for us to do.”
What an amazing inspiration! No wonder we get frustrated and tired in trying
to be good, do what’s right, follow God’s will, etc… we can’t do
it alone! As a matter of fact, if you are anything like me
(especially during a busy semester), you get stressed out just
trying to survive with the immense work load you have. We need
God’s power to do everything we do – everything. I do not
pretend to have learned that lesson absolutely and completely,
but I believe God has been teaching me little by little. I used
to always hear, “you need to be filled with the Spirit of God to
live this life!” and I had no idea how to go about doing that.
It was kind of like that verse that says “open your mouth wide
and I will fill it,” and I always heard it but never knew if
that was literal (like I had to sit down and open my mouth wide
and wait for something to happen) or in a spiritual sense, but I
finally realized through experience and reading books written by
people who had a
close relationship with God and speaking to people with a close relationship
with God that we can achieve that by constantly being in the
presence of God.
By praying throughout the day as you do
different activities and by making God a priority and including
Him in your daily life we acknowledge our need for him. I’d be
the first one to acknowledge that I struggle in consistency in
keeping God a part of my daily life, but it is vital if we are
to remain connected to God.
May God give you and me the grace to remain
filled with the Spirit of God to help us live a life pleasing to
Him.
Until Next Time.
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Tuesday,
June 21, 2005
-
Brenda
Joseph,
First Day of Summer, In the News...
Before anything, congratulations to Anne and her
husband on the upcoming new addition to her family! Children are
certainly a blessing and I wish them the best.
I can certainly say that
children are
amazing and fill our lives with joy as I have first-hand experience with my baby
nephew, Joseph. At 7 months and 3 days, Joseph is starting to
develop and display his likes and dislikes, and we can actually
see his own personality starting to shine through. Among the
things Joseph likes is holding on to anything he sees and
putting his thumb in his mouth as he does so.
This can include the t-shirts we are wearing as
we are holding him, his burp cloth, our hair, etc. My favorite
picture of him doing this is one time that I was just walking
past his little stroller and all of the sudden I see this huge
grin forming on his lips as he slowly reaches out, grabs my
skirt and puts his thumb in his mouth.

Ah, babies are so beautiful and fun!
In case anyone has not noticed yet, today is June
21, first day of summer. And those of us in the south think,
wait a minute, I thought summer started in January and lasted
until December? No, my dear friends, even though we have already
experienced searing heat --that was not summer. It only gets
worse ;) Take out that sun block and water and Gatorade and caps
or umbrellas (if you are brave enough to do so) and enjoy this
wonderful season.
Hey, at least school is optional during the summer!
Oh, and I’d like to point out something that I
think some of you may find useful or to be of interest. The only
season that needs to be capitalized is Fall to differentiate it
from the verb “fall.” All of the other seasons do not need to be
capitalized. So that’s my English tidbit for the day.
I hope you all have a first great day of summer!
Until Next time.
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Tuesday,
May 24, 2005
-
Brenda
Remembrance, Errol & Tessy's
Wedding Pictures..
Before I go into my update, I would like to extend my
condolences to the Morales family from New Jersey for the loss
of their beloved son, brother, cousin, friend, and all Jacob was
to all who knew him. Although I was not well acquainted with him
these last years, I have memories of him from when we were
children and it was a big shock to hear of his passing. Mere
words cannot erase the pain of such a huge loss, but Sis Eva,
Bro. Jimmy, Jessica, Tracy, Ashley, and the rest of the family,
please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.
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Be sure to check out pictures from
Errol & Tessy's
Wedding!
1 week. 1 whole week.
It’s been a full week of freedom!! God is so good. I never thought the end of
the semester would arrive, but it is here to stay for about 2 months. The days
seem to be going by so much more slowly because the pace of my life has been
altered significantly. Not that I mind at all,
of course. The only bad part about this whole
change was that for a few days after school finished I would wake up in the
middle of the night wondering if I was supposed to be writing a paper.
Thankfully that malady lasted only a few days, and I am now over it.
My plans for the summer are quite
adventurous indeed. God willing, I plan to do the following:
read, garden, spend time with my beautiful baby nephew and
wonderful family, and do a massive summer clean-up at home. I
know, I know –it’s all quite risky business.
But, we must live life to the fullest! ;)
So if you’ll
excuse me, I need to go tend to my flowers. Let me leave you
with this very enlightening quote I found recently. This is in
reference to this person’s strong dislike of sunlight:
Why do I dislike
sunlight? I really don't know.
But I do. And I reserve the right to have a dislike of it.
X 3 of 5X
Until Next time.
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Tuesday,
April 12, 2005
-
Brenda
School, School, and then some
more School
Definition of Cruel and Unusual torture:
1) the million papers students are required to write as the semester comes to an
end; 2) the conspiracy in which teachers are involved to make all of the
assignments due the same day; 3) what Brenda just went through and is going
through right now;
My, my, I must say I am quite impressed with how
accurate my definition is. I believe this is what some of you are going through
as well. But the worst thing about the whole matter is that I am also doing the
same thing to my students. But I tell them that I’m the one who will
get the
worst end of the deal because I have to read all of their papers
(ranging from about 100-140 pages in total) and grade them. So maybe that is a
comfort. My teachers will be miserable as well. Hmm. That’s not such a bad
thought after all ;)
But on the bright side of things, last weekend
Tessy and Errol were married! For those who do not know them, their engagement
pictures are posted up so you can see them there. The bride and groom looked
spectacular and extremely happy. I hope we’ll be having some pictures soon.
Okay, next
item on the agenda –hyphens. Binu, I’m sorry for not having responded to your
question sooner due to my busy schedule. I decided this would be good for
everyone who is having to write papers right now and is confused on when to use
hyphens or dashes.
Hyphens and dashes are two distinct punctuation
marks, terms most people, including myself, tend to use interchangeably.
According to Broadview: The Guide to Writing by Doug Babington and Don
LePan, hyphens are used to separate two parts of a compound word and to break a
word at the end of a line if there is not enough space. Examples would include
words like tax-free, hand-operated, etc.
Dashes are used similarly to parentheses to set
off and idea within a sentence, and they can also be used in place of a colon to
set off a word or phrase at the end of the sentence.
As far as my opinion on the matter goes, I find
that dashes are a little bit more exciting because they set off ideas in a way
that parentheses are not able to. I tend to think that dashes should be used
sparingly because they are supposed to create an effect. I hope that helps!
Okay, and now to end with this wonderful quote I
read in The Mystery of God’s Will, a book written by
Charles
Swindoll:
“Today is mine. Tomorrow is none of my business. If I peer anxiously into the
fog of the future, I will strain my spiritual eyes so that I will not see
clearly what is required of me now”
- Elisabeth Elliot.
Until Next time.
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Tuesday,
March 8, 2005
-
Brenda
Encouragement &
'Anne's Journal'
Anne's Journal has been updated,
Click Here
to read.
How many of you
knew that encouraging people is something we as Christians are called to do? I
had read that in the Bible before, but it never really hit me until this past
Sunday when I was flipping through my Bible during the service and I saw a verse
I had highlighted some time ago. It is
Hebrews 3:13
from the NIV translation, and it says, "But encourage one another daily, as long
as it is called Today, so that none of you may be hardened by sin's
deceitfulness." Now, I'm not sure what the relationship is between encouraging
and the prevention of being hardened by sin's deceitfulness, but that part that
really struck me was the one that said, "Encourage one another daily." Daily.
Wow,
that is amazing.
I like to think that by nature I am kind of nice and like to say nice things to
people, but I have seen countless examples of myself saying things that break
people down instead of encouraging them. And even if I am not hurting people
with my words, that is not necessarily enough. We are called to live out
our faith actively and go out and say things that are encouraging. We should
have a daily habit of actively finding ways to encourage people.
In
the spirit of the day and in order to walk the talk,
here is an
encouragement for you. The following was written by a friend, and it touched my
heart and encouraged me so much that I had tears in my eyes. I'd like to know if
it was a blessing for you as well.
"Jesus, you are my closest
friend and companion in this life and the life to come. Your extravagant love
has captivated my heart and I am drawn by your merciful chords to your very own
glorious presence. May your light reflect and change my disfigured character
that the sweet fragrance of your humility and purity will emanate to others
around. My precious friend and Savior, hold my hand and lead me through the dark
valleys and fearful mountains to the beautiful kingdom shore. Destroy the
factory in my heart that relentlessly produces idols that I worship daily. Lord,
forgive me, cleanse, sanctify, and transform me. I love you, so therefore at thy
feet my love I pour as an offering of the gratitude of your sacrifice. I give my
all into your hands."
Until Next Time.
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Tuesday,
February 15, 2005
-
Brenda
Valentine's Day, Quote &
'Anne's Journal'
Anne's Journal has been updated,
Click Here
to read.
Happy b-day to my
good buddy,
Joyce Titus,
and happy b-lated Valentine's day everyone! Not that I'm an endorser of this
particular holiday or any in particular for that matter, but since it exists, I
find it a useful time to receive chocolate and the occasional flowers. For your
information, on valentine's day I accept milk chocolate, especially the type
that has caramel in it. As a matter of fact, I'll take caramel filled chocolate
any day ;)
(I'd
really rather not knowingly clog my arteries, thank you very much)
But all jesting aside, I hope all of you had a great day yesterday, and I hope
you have a great day today, and tomorrow, etc, etc, etc. And it's caramel filled
chocolate in case you forgot. Thank you.
As far as my day went yesterday, there was no candlelit dinner for me. Instead
my evening was spent in a starkly lit room trying to fill out a form with the
heading that read "Test," trying to fill it out with all the information my
brain could hold of phonology. Phonology, for those of you who care to know, is
basically the study of linguistically significant sounds, and for the test we
had to learn all of these crazy looking symbols that each denote a sound made in
all of the languages in the world. Fun.
It
actually wasn't that bad
except for a little incident that happened along with it. I left my house in
time for my test which was supposed to begin at 4:30. I got to the door of my
class at 4:25, sighing in relief that I had gotten there 5 minutes early. I
walked in and was extremely perplexed that all of my classmates were in there
taking the exam already. What were they doing there so early, I wondered. After
getting my test from the teacher and receiving somewhat of a dirty look, I went
back to my desk and realized that I had made a small miscalculation. The test
was supposed to begin at 4, not 4:30. So much for being there
5
minutes early.
Well, if anything this helps me empathize more with my students when they are
late for class.
And to conclude my ranting, or as our dear webmaster,
Benj,
would say, my random musings, I'd like give you a meaningful quote I read in a
book:
Success is never final. Failure is Never Permanent.
Dr. James Friedberg
Think about that one.
Until Next Time.
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Tuesday,
February 1, 2005
-
Brenda
Returning to God
&
'Anne's Journal'
Anne's Journal has been updated,
Click Here
to read.
Jeremiah 44: 17, 18
We will certainly do everything we said we would: We will burn incense to the
Queen of Heaven and will pour out drink offerings to her just as we and our
fathers, our king and our officials did in the towns of Judah and in the
streets
of Jerusalem. At that time we had plenty of food and were well off and suffered
no harm.
But ever since we stopped burning incense to the Queen of Heaven and pouring out
drink offerings to her, we have had nothing and have been perishing by sword and
famine.
I don’t know how many of you have
gone through this type of experience –I know I
have gone through this sometimes. Trying to get back on track in making God #1
in my life, consistently praying, reading my Bible, doing all the “right
things,” and everything goes all wrong. When I do my own thing everything seems
to be working okay, but then I give the Lord control and things just seem to be
in a state of chaos. While this may not be the case all of the time, the times
that it does happen is enough to discourage us in our walk with Jesus and we
feel forced to take back control of our lives and boot Him from the throne
This is exactly what happened with the children of Judah in the time of
Jeremiah. They had
stopped worshipping the Queen of Heaven, expecting that now
God would bless them, but instead they had famine, captivity, desolation, etc,
and were now questioning their decision to serve God. What they didn’t realize
is that it was due to their idolatry that they were in the state they were in,
not as a result of them turning back to God
(Jeremiah 44: 23).
Sometimes we go through that as well in our lives. When we turn back to God, He
is pleased with that, but that does not always erase the consequences that
follow as a result of sin and other bad influences we have allowed in our lives
in times past. The process we go through when we return to God can be painful
and extremely confusing. So if you’re going through a time such as this, don’t
give up and go back to whatever your
“Queen of
Heaven”
may be –you may
actually have to go through this phase all over when you return to the Lord once
again. Keep your chin up and remember that this too shall pass, and that things
will get better.
Until Next Time.
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Tuesday,
January 18, 2005
-
Brenda
San Francisco, Love Hurts &
'Anne's Journal'
First
off, Anne's Journal has been updated,
Click Here
to read.
San Francisco- Last weekend Liz
and I had the opportunity to go to San Francisco for a little vacation and I had
a wonderful time. I stayed at the house of Edith, Maggie, Pat and Keila Cabrera
(cousins of Joshua Cabillo), and had a blast. Many thanks to the Cabillos and
the Cabreras for taking us out and making us feel at home. For anyone looking
for a place to go for a vacation and looking for a beautiful place to go, San
Francisco is the place for you.
Among the most memorable times I had there included the time I was allowed to
drive in the
most crooked street in the world. It was quite an
amazing experience for me. Thankfully nobody was behind me at the time I drove
as I was driving at about 2 mph and thinking I was quite the courageous woman
until I saw other cars going at least 10 mph. I just don't understand how they
did that because not only is Lombard street so crooked, it also has a pretty
steep downward slope and you have to keep your foot on the brake the whole time!
Well... at least I had to. I actually drove
a few blocks prior to that street in the most hilly streets I have ever seen. As
I was going up I actually had to keep my foot on the accelerator as well as on
the brake if I wanted to stop because if not the car would roll back. But
anyway, that was a lot of fun.
We also drove by Alcatraz and San Quentin, the latter being
the habitation (or future habitation?) of the convicted Scott Peterson, saw the
largest man-made island ( I think it was called Treasure Island), went on the
famous Golden Gate Bridge, and lost my wallet. Of course, I just had to have had
my S.S. card in there and my license, so upon my return I waited in line about 2
hours in order to report that and receive a new one, but everything is alright.
I wasn't sure if I would be able to return without a photo identification, but
God worked everything out so I was able to return to my flat, hot Houston.
Anyway, I'll try to get some pictures up in the near future of the trip. Stay
right here with us.
Love Hurts- As some of you
saw in the message board, a dear brother here in Houston passed away about 2
weeks ago. When I went to the funeral, I started reminiscing on his life, or
rather, the interaction I had with his life. We had known him for about roughly
17 to 18 years,
and the thought that he was gone was nearly incomprehensible to me. Or so it was
until I walked up to view his earthly remains. I could not stop crying as my
heart was breaking thinking about what his loss meant to me, what it meant to
his family, and more in general what loss does to people. I was remembering
Philip Cabillo whose 2nd year anniversary of passing was yesterday, Blessan's
whose second anniversary is coming up on March 14th, and thinking, love hurts.
I told
Praisy
and
Liza, sometimes I feel
like a coward and I wish I didn't love anyone because losing them hurts so much,
but at the same time I know life without love means nothing. As Paul says in 1
Corinthians 13, Though I speak with tongues of men and angels and have not love,
I am nothing.
I guess the point of that is, life is meaningless without love, yet at the same
time it hurts so much, and that is inevitable. The only thing we really can do
is show the people we care about how much we love them and focus on those great
memories when they are gone.
Until Next Time.
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